For some, walking into a room is as effortless as a feather falling in the wind – whether that room is crowded or calm. Your confidence is steady and your energy is inspiring. For others, walking into a room is as awkward as waving to someone only to realize she wasn’t waving at you.
Either way, the assumption we can all too often make is that entering a room is about us. About our presence. About our next move. And it’s an exhausting way to walk.
What if the next time you walk into a room, you decide not to think about you?
What if the next time you walk into a room, you decide to think about the other person?
This will be harder for some than for others. Particularly for the introverts in the room. But as an introvert who thrives in solitude and silence, I assure you that by the grace of God, entering a room with you on my mind has been one of the most freeing discoveries I’ve had in the last decade. Mind you, I’m a work-in-progress. But as I have put in the work to discover how God has uniquely designed and gifted me, it has spurred my curiosity to notice the people in the room over my presence in it.
I have found myself wanting to know more about you, and your story, too. For the first time in my life, I am learning the deep value of “weightless wonder.” In other words, I am making it my aim to enter a space not with information about me (and all the head noise that comes with that), but rather with questions all about you. After all, you are an expert on you and who doesn’t like to talk about what they know best
Even in our differences, we share common ground when we share our stories, and this almost always leads to sweet, unforced, and yeah, sometimes brave conversation with people who I “walk into a room” with …
What if, the next time you walk into a room, you make this one simple phrase your first thought? You matter.
Who knows, you may even find a new, beautiful friend. A new, unexpected assignment. A new, empowering freedom.
And so, what do I think is one of the best ways you and I can walk into a room with freedom? I propose that it is the same way we, as followers of Christ, should leave it. Less of me, more of Him. For it is the fragrance of Christ and Christ alone that endures, captivates, and liberates.