This is a great book that really relates to the hurting spouse.
On Chapter 9 now, and at this part find it hard to put down.
This really helps you through all the parts that goes wrong in a Marriage when your emotions get in the way.
We place so much on our spouses shoulders, and not in Christ.
This is why us men say we change, and have honestly.
Then our Wife goes back to doing the same old things that cause us to go back to where we were.
It doesnt look like we changed at all.
Everything hinges on our wife actions, words and emotions.
Yet when you place your faith and change on Christ shoulders.
The changes can and will remain, cause Christ will not fail us.
Philippians 4:13
I got my book free through Vyrso when they put it out for a few days like this.
This book is worth getting.
We may not have the Marriage we want, cause our Spouse also effects our Marriage.
Yet we should remain open to our Marriage being better and reconciled no matter what.
Even if our spouse divorces us, in time they may wake up.
There are couples who seperated for up to 7 years, and came back together through Christ.
So do not give up, pray for your spouse, and Love God.

My wife and I started reading this book at a tumultuous time in our marriage. As I read, I started to feel like Steve Goode had written it specifically for me. It was uncanny how he seemed to know exactly how I was feeling. His writing saved my marriage by showing me how to strive to be a better husband, a better Christian, and how to respond biblically to my circumstances. If you are having trouble in your marriage, particularly if that trouble is centerered around infidelity, you should read this book.

The first chapter depicts a scenario of the consequences of running before assessing the extent of the wounds in your marriage. If I had not read another chapter, this story awakened me to the damage I was about to cause in the life of my family. I would recommend this book to any spouse on the verge of a stupid or selfish decision. It also helped me heal my relationship with Christ.