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  • Moms: Let's Make This Pledge

    Lysa TerKeurst MAY 7, 2015

    Moms: Let's Make This Pledge LYSA TERKEURST

    "But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called ‘Today,’ so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness." Hebrews 3:13 (NIV)

    I really want to be a great mom. I want to raise kids who love the Lord, are respectful, kind, smart and all the other things we want for our kids.

    So, I pray. I read parenting books. I teach manners, kiss the skinned knees and help my teen process her first broken heart. I plan the family dinners, the date nights, the vacations. I keep track of who needs what and when. I set the appointments and the discipline parameters and the alarm clock so we can get up and do it all again tomorrow.

    And through every minute, I am hyper aware of my frailties and faults.

    My heart wants to be incredibly patient and organized and excited about reading books out loud.

    But then I get tired. And over-extended. And suddenly my day finds me getting snappy, losing track of all those papers sent home from school and skipping pages to hurry to the end of the book that started off with such promise.

    There is a gap between my desires and my reality.

    I bet this is true for many moms, so we should all understand those hard places, right? But somewhere in the day-to-day, we can forget how important it is to support each other as moms and sisters in Christ. We can forget the need to foster a sense of community. And as soon as we forget these things, it’s much easier for thoughts of judgment to creep in.

    In those moments, it’s crucial to remember that being a source of encouragement for others is biblical. Our key verse, Hebrews 3:13 tells us to "encourage one another daily" so that we aren’t "hardened by sin’s deceitfulness" which causes us to unfairly judge others.

    So, I was just wondering if we might all make a little pact together today.

    A pact to build each other up. To not judge one another. Ever. Even when we parent differently. Even when my kids act like I never taught them manners.

    Might you give me the benefit of the doubt? Just assume it’s a bad moment, but this isn’t an indication of all our moments.

    And then I’ll give you the benefit of the doubt when your child messes up.

    Or when I hear you snap in Target and make threats to your kids that betray every good intention you had that morning. When you prayed. And read the parenting books. And taught manners, kissed skinned knees, planned the dinner, and all the other zillions of things you did so well.

    Instead of judging you, I will love you.

    And maybe you can love me too.

    Moms, let’s pledge to build each other up instead of tearing each other down. Most of us are desperately trying to do this mothering thing right.

    Dear Lord, forgive me for not extending grace at times to others. I am a woman who desperately needs it, so I should be a woman who freely offers it. Help me to build others up and to love them as You love us. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Ephesians 4:29, "Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen." (NIV)

    1 Thessalonians 5:11, "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Being a mom is hard work, and certainly can’t be done in our own strength! Learn to look to the Lord for what you need each new day with Lysa TerKeurst’s book, Am I Messing Up My Kids? … and Other Questions Every Mom Asks. Get your copy today.

    For more encouragement for your mama heart, follow Lysa on Facebook!

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: This Mother’s Day weekend, think of a mom you know who really needs encouragement and support in this season of her life.

    Make a list of three things you could do or say over the next few weeks that would communicate intentionality and show her love.

    © 2015 by Lysa TerKeurst. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • Can't You Hurry Up, God?

    Lynn Cowell MAY 6, 2015

    Can't You Hurry Up, God? LYNN COWELL

    "But Sarai and Abram had no children. So Sarai took her maid, an Egyptian girl named Hagar, and gave her to Abram to be his second wife. ‘Since the Lord has given me no children,’ Sarai said, ‘you may sleep with my servant girl, and her children shall be mine.’ And Abram agreed." Genesis 16:1-2 (TLB)

    Why have you said, "No," God?

    The whole situation didn’t make sense. The job description fit me perfectly. And I just knew God had made me aware of that opportunity so I could move forward in my heart for ministry. Yet all the doors closed, and I couldn’t figure out why.

    Weeks turned into years as the quicksand of discouragement pulled me under. I felt forgotten, and I often looked back on that lost opportunity with regret. Maybe there was something more I could have done to make it work? Why didn’t I try harder?

    Time went on, and I was no closer to my dreams. I couldn’t understand why God kept me from that perfect position.

    In today’s key verse, Sarai, Abram’s wife, was stuck too. God had promised them offspring — as many as the stars in the heavens (Genesis 15:5) — yet time was ticking. Sarai was growing older and worried she had yet to have a child.

    Sarai may have believed she’d become invisible to God, and it was time to take matters into her own hands. She decided she wouldn’t wait any longer, so she devised a plan to get what she wanted.

    And she got it, alright — a pregnancy plus a whole lot of trouble.

    Sarai followed a common practice of her time and gave Hagar, her Egyptian slave, to Abram to become a surrogate mother. But her plan backfired. Hagar became pregnant and also a little haughty. With another person looking down on her barrenness, Sarai was more miserable than before.

    If only she would have waited instead of manipulated.

    Like Sarai, I had a hard time waiting on God. I couldn’t understand what was taking Him so long! Yet, when the perfect position opened down the road from my home, instead of a 1,000 miles away, like the other job, it all made sense.

    So often now as I take my short drive to the office, I find myself very thankful I waited for God to provide.

    If we can wait and not manipulate, God promises us He is always at work for our good (Romans 8:28). Even when the situation seems to be going the wrong way, we can trust that His way is best. We must be prayerful, wait and trust. Easier said than done, though, I know.

    Yet when we wait and see God’s goodness come to past, we create a history with God, a repertoire of faith moments when we have seen God’s faithfulness. This foundation builds our faith in Him so we know we can trust Him again and again.

    These stories, these faith-building encounters with God, are the same stories I share with my kids, helping them to trust God with their dreams for the future as well. Helping them also learn to wait and not manipulate.

    Today, thank God for the times you have seen His faithfulness. If you are in a current struggle, pray for the patience to wait and not manipulate.

    Lord, when life doesn’t go as planned, everything in me says, "Do something!" when You might be asking me to do nothing but wait. Give me faith to wait and not manipulate. To trust You fully, no matter how my circumstances appear. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Psalm 27:14, "Wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD." (NIV)

    Psalm 130:5, "I wait for the LORD, my whole being waits, and in his word I put my hope." (NIV)

    Isaiah 30:18, "Yet the LORD longs to be gracious to you; therefore he will rise up to show you compassion. For the LORD is a God of justice. Blessed are all who wait for him!" (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Do you know a young woman who needs to wait and not manipulate? Lynn Cowell’s Magnetic: Becoming the Girl He Wants would be a good resource to give her.

    Stop by Lynn’s blog today where she shares a beautiful download for those difficult times of waiting.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: How have you been tempted to manipulate a situation in your life instead of prayerfully waiting for God to move?

    Choose one of the verses above to have on hand when your mind wants to start planning instead of praying for God to move.

    © 2015 by Lynn Cowell. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • Finding Joy in Unplanned Circumstances

    Melissa Kruger MAY 5, 2015

    Finding Joy in Unplanned Circumstances Melissa Kruger

    "Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus." 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 (NIV)

    Early in the morning I approached his crib. Already dressed for my busy day, I greeted him with a smile.

    As I took him in my arms, he responded by throwing up all over me. My recently blown-out hair hung limp and my better-than-usual-somewhat-clean-clothes absorbed the rest.

    No. No. No. I thought to myself. I have important things to do today. I’m supposed to teach Bible study this morning. I’ve prepared all week just to be ready. Why did the stomach bug have to come today? All that work for nothing.

    Discontent welled in my heart as a sigh escaped my lips.

    Grumbling to myself, I called a friend asking her to lead the group in my place. Glancing at my notes as I emailed them to her, one of the verses I’d been preparing to teach grabbed my attention.

    "Rejoice always … Give thanks in all circumstances" (1 Thessalonians 5:16, 18a).

    All means all. How many times have I told my children that very thing? When I ask them to put away all of their toys, I mean all of them (especially those small toy cars precariously situated on the stairs that I walk up and down all day).

    When God asks me to "give thanks in all circumstances," He means all, too. Even when it means my hopes for the day are rearranged from doing something for which I planned, prepared and prayed. Something that seemed like a good thing to do.

    At that moment, two options lay before me. I could nurse my frustrations, reciting the difficulties and disappointment, or I could choose to give thanks. As I peeled off layers of my pungent clothing and my son’s, the temptation to complain seemed pretty appealing. Wouldn’t I rather just stew a little while and enjoy a nice warm cup of self-pity?

    I’d gone this path plenty of times and knew the outcome of inward grumbling. The meditations of my heart eventually become the words of my mouth. Sharp tones, angry words and impatient sighs overflow when I hold fast to my plans rather than accept the Lord’s plan for my day.

    Quietly the truth that had been marinating all week took the arduous journey from my head to my heart. While I prepared all week to teach others, in actuality God was teaching me. The stomach bug was my classroom and thanksgiving the lesson.

    All God asks of us is to do whatever task He gives with a thankful, rejoicing heart. Isn’t this exactly what we’d like our children to do? We care about their attitude as much as their obedience. Just as I’m in the process of parenting my children, the Lord is in the process of parenting me. And by trusting Him, I can face the unwelcome moments of mothering with joy and peace.

    My son’s illness was not an unnecessary inconvenience, getting in the way of more important things. The mundane task of cleaning up was just as valuable as teaching a group of women. Loving my son in the midst of his sickness was the most important ministry God had for me that day.

    By God’s grace, I let go of my plan. I held my son tightly, rejoicing in the gift I’d received.

    Another woman could lead Bible study that morning, but I was the only woman in the entire world who could enjoy being this little boy’s mommy. I savored the sweetness of his clean skin, the tenderness of his embrace.

    In the midst of circumstances I wouldn’t have chosen, choosing to give thanks led to the experience of joy.

    Lord, I can so easily hold onto my plans and purposes for my day. So often when I pray "Thy will be done," I really just want my own will to be done. Help me loosen my grip on my plans and cling more tightly to You. Give me a thankful, rejoicing heart in all things. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Proverbs 19:21, "Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’S purpose that prevails." (NIV)

    Colossians 3:17, "And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Struggling to spend time with God in the midst of the busyness of the mothering years? Whether you’re parenting a toddler or a teen, Walking with God in the Season of Motherhood is an 11-week Bible study that provides daily nourishment and refreshment from God’s Word.

    To read more about trusting God when you find yourself at the end of your rope, visit Melissa Kruger at her blog, Wit’s End.

    Enter to WIN a copy of Walking with God in a Season of Motherhood by Melissa Kruger. In celebration of this book, Melissa’s publisher is giving away 5 copies! Enter to win by leaving a comment here, letting us know why you’d like a copy for yourself OR whom you would give the book to, if you won. {We’ll randomly select 5 winners and email notifications to each one, by Monday, May 11.}

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: What would it look like for you to trust God with all of your plans today?

    How would giving thanks in the midst of unwelcome circumstances change your experience of them? How would it change your attitude?

    Take the time to list out 5 (or more) specific things you can thank God for today. Remember to give Him thanks in all circumstances.

    © 2015 by Melissa Kruger. All rights reserved.

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    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • Whose Girl Are You?

    Alicia Bruxvoort MAY 4, 2015

    Whose Girl Are You? ALICIA BRUXVOORT

    "You are now children of God because you have put your trust in Christ Jesus." Galatians 3:26 (NLV)

    When my firstborn was a toddler, we often began our dinnertime routine with a silly game. "Whose boy are you?" I’d ask my wiggly son as we gathered around the table when Daddy got home.

    The answer changed from night to night, but little Luke’s irrepressible delight did not.

    Eyes ablaze, he loved to hold us in suspense as he decided his momentary allegiance.

    "I’m Daddy’s boy!" he’d sometimes declare, while my husband cheered and I feigned grief.

    But on other nights, he’d change his answer. "I’m Mommy’s boy," he’d say with a giggle as my rowdy applause drowned out his daddy’s mock moans.

    One evening, God interrupted my thoughts with a question of His own: "Whose girl are you?"

    It was a question I hadn’t considered since three short words — "It’s a boy!" — had endowed me with the badge of motherhood. Before my son was born, I’d spent hours dreaming of that moment my teeny progeny would call me Mommy.

    As my due date neared, I practiced saying my new name to myself in the mirror, and I wondered if the young woman staring back at me would be everything the name implied … patient and kind, servant-hearted and wise. Whimsical and wonderful and fun. Never once did I consider that a new me wouldn’t instantly emerge with my new name.

    In the beginning, I wore my new name like an Olympic ribbon. I immediately fell in love with our 7-pound miracle and set out to prove I was worthy of being called his mommy.

    However, as days turned to weeks and weeks spiraled into months, as sleep deprivation mounted and toddler tantrums began, that name began to feel more like a heavy weight than a badge of honor. By the time my son celebrated his second birthday, we’d added a newborn daughter to the mix, and the name Mommy no longer felt like a shining statement of who I was; instead, it was a glaring reminder of who I wasn’t.

    On most days, the me in the mirror felt more sapped than super. The me in the mirror wondered how her soul could feel so empty when her hands were so full. The me in the mirror lay in bed at night, too weary to sleep, worrying if she was messing up her kids or disappointing her husband.

    Maybe that’s why God’s probing whisper left me speechless.

    "Whose girl are you?"

    For most of my life, I’d embraced my identity as God’s daughter. But something happened when I had children of my own.

    I became so focused on proving who I was, that I lost sight of Whose I was … I’d forgotten I was still a child of God. Motherhood may alter the dynamics of our days, but it does not change our identity in Christ.

    Our key verse reminds us that even when little ones cling to our knees, we have a place on our Father’s lap: "You are now children of God …" (Galatians 3:26).

    That night, while my babies slept, I sat with my Bible and read about the day Jesus welcomed the little children into his arms (Matthew 19:13-15). I pictured kids of all sizes and personalities clinging to Jesus’ strong arms. And what struck me most was not what Jesus did in those three verses, but what He didn’t do.

    Jesus didn’t require the children to prove their worth before they could climb on His knee. He didn’t sort the ambitious from the lazy, the naughty from the nice. He welcomed them all because they were His.

    And so, dear moms, are we.

    Our identity doesn’t lie in our badge of motherhood. Our identity lies in our merit as God’s children.

    So, next time you’re staring at that mommy in the mirror, listen closely for the whisper of God, "Whose girl are you?"

    And whether you’re feeling sapped or super, look that precious mommy in the eye and invite her to become a child again. I am Yours, Lord. I’m Yours.

    Father God, show me the way back to Your lap. I want to live like a child again. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Mark 10:14b, " … Jesus (to the disciples): Let the children come to Me, and don’t ever stand in their way, for this is what the kingdom of God is all about." (VOICE)

    RELATED RESOURCES: If you’ve ever felt like you’ve lost your identity, or wondered if you’ve blown it as a parent, you’ll appreciate a copy of Am I Messing Up My Kids? … and Other Questions Every Mom Asks by Lysa TerKeurst.

    Stop by Alicia Bruxvoort’s blog today for more encouragement and enter her giveaway! It’s your chance to win a prize helping you become like a child again, as you spend time with your Heavenly Father.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Carve out some one-on-one time with Jesus this week. Take a walk, sing a song, look at the clouds. Enjoy being His child.

    Post this question on your mirror — Whose girl are you? Remind yourself each time you look at your reflection that you are the daughter of the King of Kings.

    © 2015 by Alicia Bruxvoort. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • When Your Faith is Shaken

    Sharon Glasgow MAY 1, 2015

    When Your Faith is Shaken SHARON GLASGOW

    "And the Lord said, ‘Simon, Simon! Indeed, Satan has asked for you, that he may sift you as wheat. But I have prayed for you, that your faith should not fail; and when you have returned to Me, strengthen your brethren.’" Luke 22:31-32 (NKJV)

    Recently, I had one of the hardest days of my life!

    My mom, who lives with us, woke up in excruciating pain. She had no one but me to help her. Within an hour, my pregnant daughter was admitted to the hospital because of her skyrocketing blood pressure. Rachael couldn’t reach her husband, so she asked me to come quickly in case she went into labor.

    My husband had taken our only car to help someone and his cell phone was out of range. On top of all this, we live on a farm and rent out our barn for weddings. I needed to get ready for the two scheduled that weekend.

    Brides and vendors were calling, emailing and texting. My mom was groaning in agony, my daughter was waiting, and I was supposed to be preparing for a retreat where I was speaking in two days! I didn’t know which emergency took precedence. My faith started to quiver in fear; despair attempted to envelop me.

    I called a friend for encouragement. She firmly said, "Sharon, Satan is sifting you like wheat." She reminded me of Peter in the Bible. I got off the phone and went into prayer, laying my load at the feet of Jesus. Then, I picked up the Word and read the story of Peter.

    It was the night before Jesus was crucified. He was sharing the Last Supper with His disciples and turned to Peter (also called Simon): "And the Lord said, ‘Simon, Simon! Indeed, Satan has asked for you, that he may sift you as wheat. But I have prayed for you, that your faith should not fail; and when you have returned to Me, strengthen your brethren.’"

    A "sifter" is a machine that violently shakes grain and turns it into soft flour.

    Satan was asking permission to violently shake Peter. A few hours later, Satan pulled out his first round of ammunition. He fired fear at Peter to get him to deny Christ. Satan knew if he could get Peter (and each of us) to fall for fear, our faith may fail. If this happens, he then sends the atomic bomb of shame and embarrassment.

    There are three things we can learn from this story to encourage us in our troubles:

    1. Satan sometimes asks God for permission to shake us, just like he did Peter.

    God allows hardships for divine purposes. Our faith is increased through each trial, and we learn to trust God’s faithfulness and accept His mercy.

    2. Jesus is praying for us, that our faith will not fail.

    Wow, that’s huge! The very God of the universe prays for you and me!

    3. Even when we fail, God quickly forgives when we ask and frees us from self-condemnation.

    Peter learned this lesson not from his successes, but from his failures. After he denied Christ, Jesus forgave him and commissioned Peter to preach the Gospel and care for others. He could have lived with the shame of failing in his faith, but Jesus’ forgiveness washed that away.

    Self-condemnation is probably one of the worst ways Satan tries to sift us. If our faith falters, we need to immediately ask God for forgiveness and not stay stuck in guilt. This helps take our focus off ourselves and puts it on serving others and the Lord.

    Has Satan been sifting you lately? Boy, do I understand. Hectic deadlines, poor health issues, money frustrations and the pressures of life can shake our faith. These things can cause us to doubt that God is enough and will take care of us. In the middle of trials, we need to remember that God is in control, Jesus is praying for us and there is grace when our faith fails. Trusting these truths will move us from doubt and defeat to hope and peace.

    Dear Lord, Help me! Increase my faith and give me Your strength to help others. Thank You for praying for me and giving me grace when I don’t deserve it. I love You. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: 1 Peter 5:10, "But may the God of all grace, who called us to His eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered a while, perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you." (NKJV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Visit Sharon Glasgow’s blog for more encouragement on not losing your faith in the middle of sifting and shaking and enter your name for a giveaway.

    Tell the story of your faith with a beautiful 8x10" print. Treat yourself, or give this meaningful gift for Mother’s Day or graduation. And let it be a constant reminder to always rest in the steadfast promises of God’s great faithfulness.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Does it feel like Satan has been shaking you? Read Luke 22:31-32 and the books 1 Peter and 2 Peter in the Bible. (They’re short!) Peter’s faith was shaken, but he became a powerhouse for the Lord. You can, too.

    © 2015 by Sharon Glasgow. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • Make Your First 5 Count

    Lysa TerKeurst APRIL 30, 2015

    Make Your First 5 Count LYSA TERKEURST

    "My son, if you accept my words and store up my commands within you … then you will understand the fear of the LORD and find the knowledge of God." Proverbs 2:1, 5 (NIV)

    Have you ever felt something stirring in your spirit that wouldn’t go away?

    I have one of those things on my heart right now. And it all started with my middle daughter Ashley.

    Ashley is a driven and responsible girl. Last fall, she went off to college and while she’s always excelled academically, the same couldn’t be said for her spiritual life.

    As her mom, my heart broke over her struggle in her relationship with the Lord. I just couldn’t understand it — she grew up going to church, learned Bible lessons and saw my husband Art and me read Scripture each day.

    But no matter what we did or said, we just couldn’t make it connect for her.

    If you’re in that place right now with your child or in your own walk with the Lord, I understand. I think for Ashley, the Bible felt complicated and disconnected from her everyday life issues.

    As I cried out to the Lord on behalf of my daughter, the word that kept coming to mind was poverty. Poverty might seem like a strange word for this situation but when I saw the lack of spiritual nourishment in Ashley, the parallels from physical to spiritual lined up.

    I chased down this thought a little more — what causes poverty? A lack of opportunity. So many people around the world simply don’t have the opportunity to access the nourishment they need to survive.

    But this wasn’t the case with Ashley. Good gracious, we are like most Americans and have multiple copies of the Bible under our roof. So the poverty I sensed was not caused by a lack of opportunity.

    So what was it? As I wrestled with this, God brought me to the book of Proverbs.

    "My son, if you accept my words and store up my commands within you, turning your ear to wisdom and applying your heart to understanding — indeed, if you call out for insight and cry aloud for understanding, and if you look for it as for silver and search for it as for hidden treasure, then you will understand the fear of the Lord and find the knowledge of God" (Proverbs 2:1-5).

    There is one word in this passage that’s repeated over and over: understand! Solomon says if we want fear of the Lord and knowledge of God, then we will crave understanding.

    Meanwhile, at school, Ashley found herself in a Bible study being challenged by her leaders to just spend the first 5 minutes of her day in the Word.

    After admitting she hadn’t been reading her Bible and hearing many of her friends talk about the benefits they were getting, she finally gave it a try. Each day, little by little, her interest in the Bible grew. Her life and attitude was being transformed.

    I recently visited her at college and could hardly believe my eyes.

    She’s a completely different girl.

    At one point during our time together, I asked her, "What finally made following Jesus wholeheartedly click for you?" She said, "Mom, I’ve made friends who love Jesus. I saw a joy in them that I wanted. So, I started doing what they do even when I didn’t want to. At first I thought getting up to read the Bible was unrealistic. But as I kept doing it, the Lord started changing my thought patterns. And when I started thinking about life from the standpoint of Truth, I had so much more joy."

    I can hardly type these words without crying.

    As Ashley began to share with me what was happening, I also had a light switch go on. Her spiritual poverty wasn’t caused by a lack of access but rather a lack of understanding.

    In that moment, the burden on my mama heart turned to a vision for a hurting world. What if Proverbs 31 Ministries could help every mom recommend a tool to really facilitate their daughters getting into God’s Word for at least 5 minutes first thing every morning?

    What if we could bring the Word of God to college students, moms, daughters, business owners and grandmothers across the globe in a way that made the first minutes of every day life-changing? So, the minute they pick up their phones in the morning, instead of getting distracted by other things, they can get invigorated with Truth.

    We must exchange whispers with God before shouts with the world. Instead of immediately checking in with social media with the first moments of our day, we can truly make God first by giving Him our first thoughts.

    With God’s vision and your help, Proverbs 31 Ministries is striving to eradicate Biblical poverty. And we want to start by developing a free mobile app called the "First 5" to:

    • Bring life and Truth to the First 5 minutes of every day.
    • Provide a healthier alternative to hopping on social media in the first moments of our day.
    • Give us the opportunity to share hope with the people in our lives who struggle with putting God’s Word first.

    We need people whose hearts are burdened like ours to bring the Word of God to women across the globe. We need you. Join us today.

    Together, all hands in, we can take the burden and carry the vision to change lives with the Word of God.

    Dear Lord, I want to get into Your Word and let Your Word get into me. Help me to understand and apply what I’m reading as I study the Bible so I can help others do the same. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Hebrews 4:12, "For the word of God is alive and active." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: We really need your help to move this crucial initiative forward.

    You can help us by giving 5 to the "First 5." Give $5, $50, $500, $5,000. Your gift is needed! Make YOUR 5 really count! Join us today.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Each time you sit down to read your Bible this week, ask God to help you understand and apply what you’re learning.

    © 2015 by Lysa TerKeurst. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • How to Sleep Worry Free

    Amy Carroll APRIL 29, 2015

    How to Sleep Worry Free AMY CARROLL

    "But Jesus called the children to him and said, ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.’" Luke 18:16 (NIV)

    A friend looked deep into my eyes and asked, "What do you miss about being a child?"

    In the middle of playing a silly game of questions with a group, the room faded away and memories of my childhood popped into my mind like bubbles surfacing from deep waters.

    Playing with my brother in our treehouse.

    Fun Fridays with my favorite teacher at school.

    Riding my banana-seat bike down the street with friends.

    Most precious … moments snuggled between my parents while our family read together at night.

    Although it sounds idyllic, it wasn’t perfect. Just like I’m an imperfect parent, my parents weren’t perfect either. But as a child I felt loved, encouraged and most importantly, safe and carefree. As I longed for the feeling of safety that blanketed my childhood, I looked at my friend and answered, "I miss having no worries."

    Being an adult is fraught with pits of peril — financial shortfalls, job instability, parenting challenges, marriage conflict and the general stress of being responsible for yourself and others. For me, childhood was free of all those things. But that day, as I faced my friend’s question, adulthood felt like a heavy weight.

    The next day as I sat in the quiet of early morning, God whispered a single word into my heart … trust. He gently showed me the weight of adulthood I had shouldered. He nudged me to consider the hours I’d spent awake staring into the dark ruminating, with no resolution. He refreshed the sense of deep longing I’d felt the day before when I’d expressed my desire for childhood. The good old days of no worries.

    And He called me back.

    Trust is the mark of a child. Of course I had little girl concerns when I was young, but why didn’t I feel the weight of worry? It was because I trusted my parents. They took the weight of responsibility to shelter me — allowing me to feel safe and worry-free.

    Although not all parents do this well, protecting our children from adult problems is still part of a parent’s job description.

    The funny thing is my trust was partially based on illusion. As parents, my husband and I have tried to do exactly what my parents did for me. We don’t tell our kids about adult problems because we don’t want them to worry about things they can’t fix.

    It’s not that we don’t have problems or that we’re completely in control. The truth is, we’re not in control. But there’s good news for those who are faking control while lying awake at night and for those who have never felt safe.

    God is a Father who is entirely trustworthy because He is truly in control.

    As God’s children, we have a heavenly Father who is worthy of trust. All our obsessive worry over our responsibilities and concerns doesn’t change a thing, so let’s resolve to try something different. Let’s give up our illusion of control and rest peacefully like children in Jesus’ unfailing care.

    Now, instead of letting worry consume my nighttime thoughts, I’m learning to pray childlike prayers. I lay in the dark handing over my worries one by one to my faithful Father instead of grasping them in my powerless hands. I’m still in the process of training myself to trust, but I’m sleeping well at night while the One who never slumbers carries it all.

    Lord, I’ve shouldered my cares as if I’m the one in control. Help me become like a child, handing all my stresses, worries and responsibilities to You, my faithful Father. I trust You. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: I Peter 5:7, "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." (NIV)

    Philippians 4:6-7, "Don’t fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, a sense of God’s wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It’s wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life." (MSG)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Prayers for a Woman’s Soul by Julie Gillies can help you learn to pray for your needs.

    We all pray … some. But wouldn’t we like to pray more? Better? Stronger? If you can relate, you’ll appreciate Before Amen: The Power of a Simple Prayer by Max Lucado.

    Visit Amy Carroll’s blog today to enter to win a unique prayer journal that will help you turn your cares to prayers.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: What worries and responsibilities fill your thoughts and keep you awake at night? Write them on a list.

    Reflect a moment. How has your worry changed the situations on your list?

    Before bed tonight, pray through your worry list and hand each burden to God. Tell your Heavenly Father you trust Him with each one.

    © 2015 by Amy Carroll. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • The Big Things are in the Small Things

    Chrystal Evans Hurst APRIL 28, 2015

    The Big Things are in the Small Things CHRYSTAL EVANS HURST

    "So don’t be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows." Matthew 10:31 (NIV)

    I looked out my kitchen window and noticed a little bird had just landed on our bird feeder.

    To be honest, I barely noticed the little creature. It wasn’t a bird to notice really. Grayish brown, small, unremarkable. It perched on the edge of the empty soda bottle bird feeder for just a moment before flying away.

    Feeling guilty for the lack of birdseed, I called for the nearest of my three boys. Thankfully, my middle son was in earshot. He had never filled the feeder before on his own, so I sized him up to see if he was now tall enough to reach it since it hung from a ceiling hook on the front porch. Then, I sent him outside with a stool and instructions to grab the feeder and bring it inside.

    Not long after, he reentered the kitchen. I helped him unscrew the top, place a funnel inside the opening, and pour some birdseed inside. My 9-year-old went back outside, and after three or four reaches, he hung the feeder back up.

    He beamed with pride. He had fed the birds, and they would live another day because his provision had saved the day. His small action resulted in a big difference for the birds that visit our home.

    The big things are in the small things.

    That same morning, just a little while later, I sat at the kitchen table with my sons to have devotions before starting our school day.

    And what was our Bible lesson about?

    You guessed it.

    "Are not two sparrows sold for a penny? Yet not one of them will fall to the ground outside your Father’s care" (Matthew 10:29, NIV).

    We opened our family devotional and read how God takes care of His children. We were reminded that there is no need to worry because the same God who cares for the birds of the air, cares deeply for His own, knows of our needs, and makes it His business to meet them.

    As I reveled in a parenting moment where God had provided such a perfect illustration for our morning Bible time, my mother’s glory was abruptly cut short when my 6-year-old chimed in.

    "So Mom, does that mean God is going to give me an iPod?"

    What in the WORLD?

    I felt laughter and tears bubbling up at the same time.

    How did he miss the whole point?!?!

    He was so consumed with his perception of a "big thing" that he missed the point entirely.

    My friend, how do you and I miss the point?

    At times, I am consumed with my needs, or better yet, my wants. I waste worry on fears that will never happen or give too much attention to desires that are not designed to satisfy. Thoughts of what I hope for sometimes consume me, and I miss the point — the beauty of a God who faithfully and fully meets every single one of my needs.

    And that, dear one, is the point.

    The big thing is that God consistently and lovingly meets us in the small things. While we might be tempted to focus on the things we want, it is so important to intentionally focus on how good He already is. His seemingly small actions of providing for us on a daily basis with clothes, food and shelter are, in truth, very big. Why? Because His "small" actions make a big difference for us, and the ones who live within our homes.

    Lord God, I thank You so much for Your faithfulness in the small things. Please forgive me for being ungrateful and forgetting to show gratitude for Your goodness to me. You are constant in Your loving care. While I sometimes feel my life is "grayish brown, small and unremarkable," thank You for today’s reminder that I matter, that You see me, and that You make it Your business to meet my needs. Help me not to "miss the point" but to live with an intentional heart of thanksgiving. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Matthew 6:26, "Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?" (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Kingdom Woman by Tony Evans and Chrystal Evans Hurst will encourage and challenge you to be transformed by God’s truth, seek His best and move forward in the abundant life He has for you.

    Visit Chrystal’s blog for more encouragement.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: What is currently consuming your thoughts? What has been the object of your worry and concern, or the focus of your desires and hopes?

    List the "small things" God has done in your life that really are big things. Will you intentionally give Him thanks today?

    © 2015 by Chrystal Evans Hurst. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • A Father’s Reflection

    How one rose gardener brought faith into focus

    As a father of three, I struggle to understand how I could possibly make my children’s dreams come true. I get caught up making things work, wanting bigger and better, and relying less on my faith in God to lead the way.

    When I was in Guatemala this past winter documenting a mission trip, I was taken aback by how much simplicity and clarity meeting a rose gardener gave me. While Ramón didn’t say very much, his humbleness and faith seemed unwavering. He gardens during the day to support his family. And with the help of World Vision, he was given an opportunity to tend a rose garden. With the extra work, Ramón is blessed to now have the means to put his six children through school.

    God calls all of us to trust the journey He has us on. And I could see that Ramón has. What began with one of our customers sponsoring a child in Ramón’s community is ending with a brighter future for his children.

    –Nik DeGraaf, Family Christian Photographer

    Sponsoring a child helps struggling communities like Ramón’s. Visit familychristian.com/worldvision to learn more.

    World Vision
  • Give Yourself Permission to Slow Down

    Wendy Pope APRIL 27, 2015

    Give Yourself Permission to Slow Down WENDY POPE

    "Then God blessed the seventh day and sanctified it, because in it He rested from all His work which God had created and made." Genesis 2:3 (NASB)

    During my son’s basketball practice, I made my grocery list, returned text messages, checked work emails, read an online devotion and scrolled through Facebook. In the midst of my frenzy, a photo of my friend’s vacation stopped me in my tracks. I could almost feel the warm sun and hear the clear water lapping the shore.

    My shoulders relaxed and my mind rested for just a moment before the referee blew the whistle, and I was off again. Though tired, after the practice I headed to the grocery store, post office and garage for an oil change. I tucked the picture of the beach in the back of my mind and reminded myself that I needed to take a Sabbath — a full day of rest.

    Does taking one whole day off sound foreign to you? I struggle with it, too. That’s because we have lost the rhythm of life, which includes a day of rest. As a result, we are tired, overworked, disorganized, confused and sleep-deprived.

    What has happened to the Sabbath? Where did the ideals of a day of rest go?

    With bills to pay, broken things to fix, kids to care for and work deadlines to meet, it’s difficult to give ourselves permission to slow down. Celebrating the work we’ve done seems like a waste of time. But God said to rest and celebrate. He even modeled it for us.

    We are given an example of the Sabbath in Genesis 2:3: "Then God blessed the seventh day and sanctified it, because in it He rested from all His work which God had created and made." The word "blessed" means praise, salute, kneel or bless oneself. The Lord gave Himself permission to rest and to celebrate the work He had done on the other six days of the week.

    Pausing once a week helps to clear our hearts and minds. This "white space" enables us to focus on praising and worshipping the Lord. We find room to rejoice in the work He has enabled us to complete, which balances discouragement over unfinished jobs. It aligns our perspective with what is important and reminds us that these tasks will still be there when we return to work.

    Make plans to schedule a Sabbath rest for yourself. Mark your calendar now and set that day aside for praise and worship, prayer and Scripture reading, naps and knitting (or whatever is restful for you). Most importantly, set your Sabbath state of mind on the Lord and honor Him with a day of rest and celebration.

    Dear Lord, it seems I rarely press pause. Thank You for this reminder to set aside a day of rest and reflection. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Exodus 20:8, "Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy." (ESV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Spend your Sabbath rest refreshing yourself in God’s Word and Wendy Pope’s Bible study, Trusting God for a Better Tomorrow: A Study of Psalms.

    Visit Wendy’s blog for tips on creating white space in your life for Sabbath rest.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: When is the last time you truly rested and spent time celebrating what God has allowed you to accomplish?

    Sit down with your calendar and decide which day you will take as your Sabbath. If you are married or have children, make this decision as a family.

    © 2015 by Wendy Pope. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

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