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  • Learning to Love More People, More

    Lisa Harper NOVEMBER 23, 2015

    Learning to Love More People, More LISA HARPER

    "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." Ephesians 4:32 (NIV)

    You’ve probably heard the old adage, "you can’t teach an old dog new tricks." Well, I beg to differ. I’ve learned at least one new thing. Every. Single. Day. Of the last year and a half.

    Most of the lessons have come courtesy of a joyful 6-year-old Haitian with a wee rambunctious streak named Missy, who officially became my daughter in April 2014 after a tumultuous two-year adoption process.

    My little girl has a brave warrior spirit and a predisposition to wiggle gleefully in the grocery store and greet bemused shoppers with the invitation, "Hello ma’am, do chu wanna dance wid my mama and me?" My little girl also has HIV.

    She was unwittingly infected by her biological mom who, like far too many people living in impoverished conditions in third world countries, never got tested and died of AIDS without ever realizing she had it.

    As a result of Missy’s disease, one of the first new lessons I learned was about loving more people, more. My tutoring session took place in the private non-chain pharmacy we visit monthly that specializes in meds for people with HIV and AIDS. They don’t sell candy, cards, breakfast cereal, toothpaste or Chia pets, just pricey medicine for pretty sick folks. It’s tucked away on the fifth floor of an old building that used to house a low-budget shopping mall.

    Of course, at first some of the other customers glanced at us with curiosity. This was probably because — with Missy dressed in a plaid school uniform and a bow bigger than her head, and me wrapped in my whole harried, disheveled look — they assumed we were lost.

    Some even hurdle over benign curiosity and jump straight to barely disguised contempt. This aptly describes the man with an angry expression who rode up the elevator with us one visit. He literally averted his gaze and exhaled in protest when Missy blurted out happily, "Hello Sur! How awe you?"

    I put my hand protectively on her shoulder and tried to scoot her a few inches away, but this was one time her ardor was not easily redirected. She tugged on his sleeve and persisted with more animation, "I’m Missy Haar-Purr. I’m FIVE! And this is my MAMA Haar-Purr!"

    He threw me a look of frustration and exhaled louder. It was all I could do not to grin at his surprised expression when we walked into the pharmacy behind him and the darling employees swarmed Missy like a bevy of favorite aunts.

    He seemed startled when they asked her to sing and she responded by belting out the praise chorus of "Your Great Name" followed by an enthusiastic, hip-swiveling encore of "Shake Your Booty." (Missy’s musical repertoire is surprisingly vast.)

    A few minutes later, after she’d proclaimed, "I lub ya’ll!" she handed a big sucker to each one of the staff. Then Missy turned to the man, held up her last remaining lollipop, and asked sweetly, "Wood chu like a sucker, Sur?"

    His expression softened as he leaned down and replied gently, "Well, yes, honey. I believe I would." My daughter hugged him before bellowing a rather bossy "Goodbye Sur, it was nice to meed you!" At which point he reached over her head and shook my hand.

    When our eyes met, we both smiled. I couldn’t speak, because I was too close to tears. But I don’t think we needed any more words. Enough had already been said.

    What Thanksgiving does annually for my waistline, Missy has done for my heart. She’s increased my capacity to "be kind and compassionate to one another," which is exactly the kind of effect the indwelling power of the Holy Spirit has on Christ-followers.

    Our Heavenly Father’s forgiveness and acceptance causes our hearts to expand far beyond our previous boundaries. As maturing Christians, we’ll scoot past simply being consumers of grace and become carriers of grace, becoming brave enough to embrace people we never noticed before as we seek to act like Christ.

    Lord, remind us today that Your grace is available to everyone and that we are all in need of it. Help us live in a way that reflects Your nature to others. We know we can do it only through the empowering of Your Holy Spirit. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: John 13:34, "A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another." (NIV)

    1 Corinthians 13:4, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: In her new book, Believing Jesus, Bible teacher and author Lisa Harper retraces the steps of the apostles in the book of Acts, while throwing in a few of her own crazy adventures along the way.

    Lisa has also prepared a Believing Jesus DVD Study and accompanying Study Guide. In them, she addresses what it means to believe Jesus. Not just believe in Jesus, but actually believewhat He said — and shape our lives around that truth.

    Enter to WIN a set of Believing Jesus — book, DVD and Study Guide by Lisa Harper. Lisa’s publisher is giving away 5 sets! Enter to win by leaving a comment here, letting us know why you’d like a set for yourself OR whom you would give the set to, if you won. {We’ll randomly select 5 winners and email notifications by Monday, November 30.}

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Who is one person you know — perhaps someone different from yourself — to whom you could show Jesus’ grace and compassion today? How will you do that?

    What would it look like for you to "love more people, more"? In what ways would that change your mindset and the way you view others?

    © 2015 by Lisa Harper. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries thanks Thomas Nelson Publishers for their sponsorship of today’s devotion.

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    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • A Heart for Giving

    In Acts 20:35 (NIV), Paul tells us that Jesus says, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.”

    However, it is a struggle for many people today to give without feeling obligated or without expectation of something in return. Whether it is the giving of gifts, of money, or of time, many of us find it difficult to make a sacrifice without getting some type of repayment.

    When others need help, is your initial reaction to think, “What’s in it for me?” If so, I encourage you to meditate on the verses below and evaluate whether or not you have a heart for giving.

    If this is an area of difficulty in your life, ask God to work in your heart and to teach you to give cheerfully and without expectation.

    John 3:16

    “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

    We have been given the greatest gift of all – the atoning sacrifice of Jesus Christ. This gift was given freely to all who accept it, without receiving anything in return. This is the heart for giving that we should model in our lives today.

    Deuteronomy 15:10

    “Give generously to them and do so without a grudging heart; then because of this the Lord your God will bless you in all your work and in everything you put your hand to.”

    Proverbs 11:25

    “A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.”

    Proverbs 18:16

    “A gift opens the way and ushers the giver into the presence of the great.”

    Luke 6:30

    “Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back.”

    1 Corinthians 13:3

    “If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.”

    2 Corinthians 9:6-8

    “Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”

    Hebrews 13:16

    “And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.”

    1 John 3:17

    “If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person?”

    God asks us to give not out of obligation or with any reservation, but rather to give because He first gave to us. It is not what we give, or how much we give, but whether or not we have a heart for it.

    With the holiday season upon us, now is the perfect time to practice your giving. To you that could mean giving a surprise present to someone and not expecting anything in return, or it could mean giving up a Saturday afternoon and volunteering somewhere.

    Just remember, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.”


    This post was written by Family Christian's own Alex Rogers. He loves coffee, movies, and spending time with friends and family.

  • Overcoming a Sizable Fear

    Liz Curtis Higgs NOVEMBER 20, 2015

    Overcoming a Sizable Fear LIZ CURTIS HIGGS

    "Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love." 1 John 4:18 (NLT)

    My flight was in the boarding process as I settled into my aisle seat, 7-B, and began to pray for whomever might sit in 7-A.

    Sadly, I wasn’t praying for that person’s soul — I was praying for his or her size. I dearly hoped the stranger would be petite, someone who wouldn’t feel miserable squished next to an abundantly blessed woman on a tiny commuter plane.

    Please, Lord?

    I watched the passengers file past, apprehension mounting. My opening patter was well rehearsed: "They keep making these planes smaller, don’t they?" or "Sure wish my hips could fit in the overhead compartment." Anything to put him or her at ease.

    Moments later a slender, smiling boy appeared beside me. "I’m 7-A."

    I beamed at him. "Wonderful!" He had blond hair, perfectly round glasses and the pink cheeks of late childhood. I pegged him at 9 or 10, maybe even a mature age 8.

    He climbed into his seat, barely taking up half of it, and announced, "I like this plane. It’s my size." He leaned toward me and added in a stage whisper, "It makes me feel bigger."

    Bless his heart.

    I asked his name, wondering what it must be like to travel alone at such a young age, then gently patted his arm. "I’m here if you need anything."

    The child talked non-stop for the first 30 minutes before folding over and drifting off to sleep. Watching him, I resisted the maternal urge to smooth back his hair. So young.

    When the engines grew louder, signaling our descent, my neighbor woke up with a yawn, glanced at his watch and grinned. "Whaddaya know? My birthday is next week."

    Picturing a big party in the works, I asked, "Which one will this be?"


    My smile froze in place. It couldn’t be. Not this small boy, no taller than a third-grader.

    I could only imagine the snide comments his peers threw at him. Or the many clueless strangers like me, who treated him as if he were a half-grown child instead of a full-fledged teenager.

    "Happy birthday," I murmured, my heart breaking for him. What must it be like to be smaller than people expect?

    It’s like being larger than people expect.

    I looked down and fumbled with my seat belt, suddenly feeling exposed. Just like this self-conscious teen who kept his defense tactics at the ready — "It’s my size" — I had my verbal arsenal loaded as well, deflecting imagined criticism by beating people to the punch — "They keep making these planes smaller, don’t they?"

    No, Liz. They don’t.

    The time had come to see my self-effacing banter for what it was: fear of embarrassment, fear of rejection.

    What if you don’t like me? What if you say something unkind?

    Today’s key verse, 1 John 4:18, helped change my thinking. God promises that His "perfect love expels all fear." The truth is: People may not love us. But God does. If we embrace His love, we won’t fear the approval of people and can instead focus on loving them.

    "If we are afraid," 1 John 4:18 continues, "it is for fear of punishment." Rude stares, rolled eyes, hurtful comments. Such things might come from people, but never from the Lord. As our verse concludes, such fear "shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love."

    I not only want to experience God’s perfect love; I also want to give it away. Now whenever I fly alone, I offer a different prayer. To be more other-conscious and less self-conscious. And to seek God’s approval alone.

    Heavenly Father, the size of our hearts is infinitely more important to You than the size of our bodies. Help us cast aside our fears and replace them with Your truth. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Galatians 1:10, "Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ." (NIV)

    Proverbs 29:25, "Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is kept safe." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Want more encouragement about embracing the woman God created you to be? Liz Curtis Higgs’ new book, It’s Good to Be Queen, explores the remarkable life of the Queen of Sheba, an ancient role model for modern women.

    Stop by Liz’s blog where her post, "What Will People Think?" expands on Proverbs 29:25, offering further encouragement for letting go of fear.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Your fears may be entirely different than mine, yet they still reflect a need to fully embrace God’s love.

    Day in and day out, what are you most afraid of? How might a deeper awareness of His love help you overcome that fear?

    © 2015 by Liz Curtis Higgs. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • Family Christian® Celebrates New Path Forward

    Family Christian® Celebrates New Path Forward Store and product improvements create unique shopping experience GRAND RAPIDS, Mich. (Nov. 18, 2015) – Following a 12-month operational reorganization, along with a complete store and product overhaul, Family Christian® announced today it is on the path to becoming a stronger retailer and supporter of faith-based causes.

    As part of the reorganization, Family Christian have upgraded and expanded their product selection to include a new compelling assortment of home décor, apparel, and books. “It’s not just about the new merchandise, though,” said Steve Biondo, Family Christian Spokesperson. “We’ve also implemented a new Service Promise throughout the organization, focused on loving and caring for our customers, to guarantee a shopping experience like no other.” The most important element of the organization’s restructuring is an even deeper focus on maximizing its ministry impact. Purchases at Family Christian support the non-profit’s efforts to unite with ministries that are helping children and families in need stateside and worldwide. “While our business goal is to be a first-class retailer, the heart of this organization is firmly grounded in ministry,” said Biondo. “We will be developing even stronger ministry partnerships to continue and increase our support of hands-on widow and orphan work worldwide, and sharing God’s word through Bible donations and mission trip support.”

    To locate the nearest Family Christian store, visit www.familychristian.com.

    About Family Christian Located in the United States, Family Christian is the world's largest Christian-focused retailer. The nonprofit organization has approximately 255 stores in 36 states. The organization offers a variety of Christian-themed merchandise, including Bibles, home decor, art, gifts, DVD’s, kids products, books, and music. In addition to its physical stores Family Christian provides consumers with access to all these resources through www.familychristian.com, its eCommerce platform. All earnings are donated to Christian ministries serving families, orphans and widows in distress. Learn more at http://www.familychristian.com/about.

  • Showing Our Troubles to God

    Wendy Pope NOVEMBER 19, 2015

    Showing Our Troubles to God WENDY POPE

    "They told him, ‘This is what King Hezekiah says: Today is a day of trouble, insults, and disgrace. It is like when a child is ready to be born, but the mother has no strength to deliver the baby.’" 2 Kings 19:3 (NLT)

    During the fall semester of her senior year in college, my friend Sandy’s life sort of fell apart within a matter of two days. Her steady boyfriend called it quits. She got strep throat. She slept through her mid-term exams. Her beloved grandmother passed away. Then she received a letter from her college. While dealing with her Grandma’s death, her parents forgot to pay the spring semester tuition bill. All her classes had been dropped.

    She told me this story 20 years after it happened. However, all the heartbreak and mishaps didn’t strike me as much as Sandy’s reaction did. When she walked out of the post office, she headed straight to a park on campus. There, she sat by a stream. As her tears hit the cancelled-classes letter, she prayed and told God the same story she’d told me.

    Rather than running home to call her parents or talk to her roommates, Sandy headed straight to the Lord. Her response to difficulties reminded me of King Hezekiah in the Old Testament.

    This king had been repeatedly tested. His enemy, the King of Assyria, not only insulted King Hezekiah personally, but on more than one occasion tried to mess with his army’s psyche. His enemy kept sending threatening letters to Hezekiah and his strength ran out.

    Whooped and beaten, King Hezekiah didn’t have it in him to make it one more day. "They told him, ‘This is what King Hezekiah says: Today is a day of trouble, insults, and disgrace. It is like when a child is ready to be born, but the mother has no strength to deliver the baby’" (2 Kings 19:3).

    When he could take it no longer, King Hezekiah used his last bit of vigor to pick himself up and go to the Temple of the Lord. There, as we read in 2 Kings 19:14, he spread out the distressing letter before God. I love the visual of Hezekiah, the powerful king of Israel, humbly and feebly showing his troubles to God.

    I often seek counsel from trusted friends before taking my concerns to the Lord. Perhaps deep down I feel I need someone with skin who can help me audibly process my problems. Godly friends are wonderful sources of wisdom and care. But rather than spread my troubles out among several friends, I want to spread them out before the One and only God first.

    At Proverbs 31 Ministries, we want to help others do the same. Our deepest desire is to help women around the globe weave God’s Word into the rhythm of their lives, through the collection of ministries we offer each day.

    Just imagine the peace you’d experience by showing your troubles to God, and placing His truth front and center in your day — instead of focusing on challenges that come your way.

    I’m not sure what Sandy prayed that difficult day two decades ago, but Hezekiah’s prayer is recorded for us in the Bible. Next time we’re faced with hardships, we could repeat his words to God: "O LORD, God of Israel, you are enthroned between the mighty cherubim! You alone are God of all the kingdoms of the earth. You alone created the heavens and the earth. Bend down, O LORD, and listen! Open your eyes, O LORD, and see!" (2 Kings 19:15b-16a, NLT)

    Lord, thank You for my godly friends and their wisdom. Quicken my spirit to turn to You when I need strength and my troubles seem overwhelming. You are my very present help in times of trouble. Help me to seek You first each and every day. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: 1 Chronicles 16:11, "Look to the LORD and his strength; seek his face always." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: This is an incredible time to participate in an investment that is reaping huge eternal dividends, but we need your help. There are still so many more to reach! Will you join us? Your donation to Proverbs 31 Ministries can make a difference when you click here.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Do you believe God hears your prayers? If not, why not?

    When is a time you prayed to God and felt His peace?

    © 2015 by Wendy Pope. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • What to Do When You Feel Out of Sync

    T. Suzanne Eller NOVEMBER 18, 2015

    What to Do When You Feel Out of Sync SUZIE ELLER

    "Come close to God, and God will come close to you." James 4:8a (NLT) 

    My husband is a great guy, but his dance moves leave a lot to be desired. His rhythm doesn’t match the music; he’s always a beat behind or several beats ahead.

    The thing is, this does not stop him from dancing. Whether in our living room or at a wedding, he jumps in with enthusiasm. If everybody’s going left and he’s going right, he doesn’t care. He has a smile on his face. He’s having a blast.

    The other night he held out his arms and asked me to dance. He switched on some tunes and off we went. He danced to his own tempo, while I listened for the beat of the music. We weren’t in sync at all.

    And then I had a thought.

    What if I just went with it? What if I let him lead regardless of whether he was moving in the direction or timing I thought he should be? What if I just matched his moves?

    I slipped into his arms. When he was off tempo, I moved off tempo with him. When he sped up or threw in a funky and creative twist, I sloughed off my self-consciousness and matched it. Fifteen minutes later we were both breathless and having the time of our lives!

    He didn’t become a great dancer in those 15 minutes, but I became a better dance partner.

    In the book of James, we find a church out of sync. They’re quarreling and fighting. James exposes the heart issues behind this lack of unity — things like jealousy and being judgmental with each other — but then issues an invitation: "Come close to God, and God will come close to you" (James 4:8a).

    It was a move that had the power to bring them back into harmony.

    Many times we might feel out of sync as well. It could be another person, or even God, causing our hearts to struggle. We pray He will change someone else, change our circumstances or that at least change the way we feel.

    James’ invitation is for us, as well. Come close to God and He’ll come close to you.

    Listen closely for the rhythm of His leading. It might feel uncomfortable in the beginning. His timing in your circumstances might feel quicker or slower than you planned. His instructions might conflict with how you expected Him to answer.

    But there’s a gift found when you let God take the lead. You start to understand His rhythm in your life and in your thoughts. Your will begins to align with His.

    Whatever You say, Lord, I’ll listen. Wherever You are leading, Father, I’ll go. Whatever You ask me to do, I’ll do it.

    You rediscover how to trust and depend on Him. You start to go against how you feel to choose what leads you into compassion or wisdom, rather than anger or jealousy or words that cause harm.

    Dance with Me.

    That’s our invitation from a God who knows exactly what He wants to do inside of you, in those trying circumstances, within that relationship or in that hard place.

    Until the other night, if you’d asked me about Richard’s dancing, I would have said his lack of rhythm was the problem. But now I know that I was listening to the wrong beat all along.

    Lord, I’ve been out of sync with You. Thank You for your invitation to come to You. I’m holding out my arms and aligning my moves with Yours. Help me trust and depend on You completely. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Psalm 73:28, "But as for me, how good it is to be near God! I have made the Sovereign LORD my shelter, and I will tell everyone about the wonderful things you do." (NLT)

    RELATED RESOURCES: If you’ve been struggling with quarrels or conflict, Suzie Eller’s book, The Unburdened Heart: Finding the Freedom of Forgiveness offers hope and help.

    Join Suzie on her blog for a giveaway and to discover three small steps to intimate faith.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: These tips for beginning dancers are just as relevant in our faith:

    1. Position yourself. (James 4:7 — humility is a powerful position.) 2. Trust your partner. (James 4:6 — God offers grace.) 3. Allow yourself to be led. (James 4:10 — He’s leading you to higher places.)

    © 2015 by Suzie Eller. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • Give Hope: Food

    What is hope? “A reason to live.” – Ron Morin, Founder and Director of Pray America/Manos de Jesus

    As the Christmas season draws near, we are reminded of our Savior’s birth and the hope He brought to the world. Today, so many people around the world are struggling, and are without the hope of Jesus. Our prayer is that together we can help fill many of them with that hope.

    There are three ways in which we aim to give hope this year: through education, food and water.

    Give Hope: Food

    Beginning November 20, our campaign to give hope through food kicks off. Along with our ministry partner, Pray America, we are raising funds to feed 10,000 Guatemalans for one year.

    In the late 1980s, Pray America began serving people in need in Central America. Their Christ-centered and non-denominational ministry works to bring spiritual, physical and social restoration and wholeness to Mayan widows and orphans.

    Through their programs, families are fed both physically and spiritually, meaning that in addition to the food they receive, they are taught about Jesus and the eternal hope that He provides.

    Ron shared that in the regions they are serving, “most of the people they meet are hopeless, but once Pray America introduces them to the gospel, their outlook dramatically changes.”

    Take the story of Micaela.

    After putting her through years of verbal and physical abuse, Micaela's husband up and left, leaving her and her two children to fend for themselves. Times were tough - there were days when, she Debora, 12, and Freddie, 5, could only eat once a day. Then Micaela met the people at Pray America, and her family’s life began to change.

    Now she attends the widow's discipleship program held once every two weeks, and her children attend a feeding program twice a week. Through the food provided to them, they receive hope for tomorrow. Through the teachings of Christ, hope for eternity.

    Micaela and her two Children

    Today, Pray America operates three feeding programs in Chichicastenango, Guatemala, but even the weekly programs could not make up for the food shortage that took place in 2014. Due to a drought that year, corn only grew to about half its size. Corn is a crucial food to Guatemalans, so without it—they struggle to survive.

    Ron was concerned. What if the drought returned? How would Guatemalans survive?

    Ron asked and God answered. His response was to build a bodega, which is a food storehouse. Earlier this year, construction was completed, and now the need is to fill it with dry, natural food that Guatemalans can survive on. As soon as it is filled, Pray America will begin distributing the food to the families with the greatest need.

    A full bodega can keep 10,000 people fed for an entire year, so from November 20th to the 29th, please consider helping us feed these 10,000 Guatemalans in need. For the first $25,000 donated, our nonprofit ministry, Family Christian Ministries, will match the amount.

    If you would like to join us in giving hope to the people of Chichicastenango, please visit our Give Hope: Food page, or text FAMILY to 52000 to donate $10*.

    *Your one-time donation of $10 will be added to your mobile phone bill or deducted from your pre-paid balance. Message & data rates may apply.

  • How to Have More Gratitude Than Grumble

    Melissa Michaels NOVEMBER 17, 2015

    How to Have More Gratitude Than Grumble MELISSA MICHAELS

    "And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father through him." Colossians 3:17 (NIV)

    With Christmas just around the corner, it can be easy to fly by Thanksgiving in a flurry of activity, stress or excitement without being changed at all by gratitude … well, unless you count the extra couple of pounds around our middles from overdosing on mashed potatoes, gravy and pumpkin pie.

    In Canada, Thanksgiving falls in October, which I think is a splendid plan. It offers more time to recover and refocus before Christmas.

    Often in our fast-paced culture, we try to cram a lot into a short period of time. Therefore, slowing down to savor moments in our homes has to be a deliberate, intentional goal.

    Whether you’ve already enjoyed Thanksgiving dinner or are still looking forward to it, we can use this season to reset our habits and perspectives at home.

    I know what you might be thinking if your home is in chaos right now, and everyone is greeting your requests with more grumble than gratitude. It’s not always easy to focus on the positives, is it?

    We try to instill in our kids the idea of looking for the gift in everything, rather than just focusing on hardships. One Thanksgiving we came up with a list of 20 little things to be grateful for, which helped give our family a new perspective.

    But it isn’t just kids who benefit from an attitude shift. We all can use a gentle nudge to practice the habit of gratitude at home. Here are three practical ways I’ve found to transform my own attitude in each room of my house:

    1. Gratitude in the kitchen.

    The process of cleaning a house and fixing meals can feel like an endless loop. But instead of feeling overwhelmed by the regularity of chores, we can refocus our hearts to practice gratitude for the gift of a home to care for.

    The kitchen has traditionally been considered an area where nurturing takes place, so as we prepare food, clean counters and empty the sink each day, we can be reminded that the joy and tender care we show in taking care of this space God provided will establish an atmosphere of gratefulness, grace and love.

    2. Thankfulness in the dining room.

    Is your dining table covered with papers and clutter every day? Establish a daily practice of thankfulness by creating an inviting gathering space. When we treasure our gifts we take care of them, so be inspired to see this table as a sacred space to bless your loved ones.

    Grab a hot soapy rag from the kitchen and a basket to begin a new nightly routine. Corral all the clutter in the basket and let everyone pick out his or her own stuff to put away. Wipe the table so you have a clean surface. If you have kids, they can help make a centerpiece out of seasonal elements. Arrange candles to set the mood as everyone sits down. It doesn’t have to be perfect, just have fun with it every night. Take a moment to look at each face around the table and thank God for them.

    3. Grace in the living room.

    Whether you have kids, roommates, dogs or a husband, it’s easy to get frustrated by the mess others make in our space. Use this season to practice a new habit of looking for opportunities to show God’s love to people right there in your living room.

    At the end of the day when everyone is tired and the upkeep of the house is spiraling out of control, take a deep breath and offer grace instead of griping. Say a prayer of gratitude for the mess makers in your home and if necessary, invest in training and correction at a more productive time.

    Dear Lord, thank You for this home and for Your precious Word upon which I can build a solid and beautiful sanctuary for my family. May gratefulness be ever-present in my heart and home to the glory of Your Name. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Proverbs 24:3-4, "By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: What if all it takes is a few simple changes to make your home a haven for you and your family? If this devotion inspired you to embrace gratitude, The Inspired Room, Melissa Michaels’ brand-new design book, will help you fall even more in love with the home you have.

    Visit Melissa’s blog, The Inspired Room, for more encouragement today.

    Enter to WIN a copy of The Inspired Room by Melissa Michaels. In celebration of this book, Melissa’s publisher is giving away five copies! Enter to win by leaving a comment here, letting us know why you’d like a copy for yourself OR whom you would give the book to, if you won. {We’ll randomly select five winners and email notifications to each one, by Monday, November 23.}

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Take a moment to look around your home. What are you most grateful for?

    What are some ways you can reset the atmosphere of your home this season to make room for gratitude?

    © 2015 by Melissa Michaels. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries thanks Harvest House Publishers for their sponsorship of today's devotion.

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    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • A Loving Message of Faith, Family & Fun

    Finding a movie that is both enjoyable and safe for your family can be challenging.  At Family Christian we love finding faith based and family friendly movies for you to enjoy.  Recently a great new film called "Welcome to Inspiration" has arrived on DVD.

    Welcome to Inspiration


    Starring Jason Crabb, among others, Welcome To Inspiration has a loving message of faith, family and fun to apply study and scripture in our daily lives to achieve the spiritual success we long for. It speaks to planting seeds, discipleship, self-study, and hopes to spark a moving experience through cinema in the hearts of its audience!  This inspirational journey will be projected over an original Country Gospel and Contemporary Christian soundtrack, with artists including Grammy Award winners Jason Crabb and Larry Gatlin, and Christy Sutherland, Terri Sharp,Andrew Greer, Andrea Thomas, Paul Reter, Rob Rainwater, the Lee University Campus Choir and many more. The Movie is inspired by the scripture based principles found in the book, The Street Sweeper by Tim Enochs.

    The Dove Foundation has approved this film for children ages 12+, but of course you should always judge for yourselves what you deem appropriate for your family.  This film was released in 2015 and is now available for purchase from Family Christian.  You can order your copy of Welcome to Inspiration today.

    Meanwhile, we are offering a chance for you win a copy!  3 lucky folks will each win a dvd of Welcome to Inspiration.  Enter below for a chance to win.

  • Lord, I Need A Miracle

    Leah DiPascal NOVEMBER 16, 2015

    Lord, I Need A Miracle LEAH DIPASCAL

    "I give thanks to you, because you have answered me. You are my savior." Psalm 118:21 (GW)

    As I glanced around the hospital waiting room, my thoughts drifted back to three days prior when my brother called from his attorney’s office.

    "Leah, I have to have surgery right away. My neurologist told me I have a brain tumor, and my surgeon has strongly advised I get my will and finances in order, just in case …"

    The MRI revealed an 8-cm mass silently sitting on top of my brother’s brain stem. The possibility of things going wrong had been clearly communicated. The words "paralysis," "blindness" and "vegetative state" invaded our conversation that day.

    So there we were — three days later and four long hours into surgery — with at least four more hours to go.

    Internally I was a mess, but trying my best to get a grip and keep my emotions in check. As I looked around the waiting room, I noticed no one was crying. No tears. No sorrow.

    Instead of seeing doubt and despair, I watched faith in action.

    Family and friends praying together, speaking words of hope and encouragement. Sharing stories and reminiscing over all the things they loved about my brother.

    In that moment, I realized it was not the time to crumble in fear. It was time to stand firm in faith. To pray like never before. To trust God was with us. To ask for a miracle. And, yes, even to be thankful. Thankful that:

    God was sparing my brother’s life.

    God was providing an excellent neurologist and surgical team.

    God was bringing family and friends together for support.

    God was comforting us in the midst of a crisis.

    As we waited together, we tried not to focus on the worst but to believe God for the best. Although we knew modern medicine had its limitations, we held to the truth that God has no limitations and is certainly able to do immeasurably more. And He certainly did …

    Doctors speculated my brother would be in ICU for at least two or three days. God intervened and he left the ICU a few hours after surgery.

    Doctors speculated my brother would be in the hospital for two weeks. God intervened and my brother was released from the hospital just two days after surgery. Two days!

    Doctors speculated my brother would need extensive physical therapy. God intervened and my brother hasn’t needed any physical therapy.

    God not only answered our prayers, but He exceeded our greatest expectations.

    Doctors were blown away by my brother’s recovery. Although they didn’t use words like "miracles" or "the power of prayer," our family certainly did. Over and over again!

    I can still remember the first words my brother spoke to me after surgery. Still hooked up to an IV with part of his head shaved and his body swollen, he slowly whispered, "Thank you, God."

    Although physically weak, my brother was spiritually strong and in his own way responded like today’s key verse: "I give thanks to you, because you have answered me. You are my savior"(Psalm 118:21).

    When our family celebrates Thanksgiving this year, we have even more to be thankful for: Our health. Each other. Miracles and answered prayers.

    As Thanksgiving approaches, what are you thankful for? What story has God given you to share with others about His faithfulness in your life?

    Don’t be tempted to keep your miracle hidden. Instead, share your story over and over again, because God deserves the glory that will come from your testimony.

    Heavenly Father, Thank You for answering my prayers and performing miracles in my life every day. Just the fact that I woke up this morning and can take a breath is a gift from You. Help me to never take my health and loved ones for granted. Help me to always stand in faith and keep my focus on You when unexpected circumstances arise. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. 

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Psalm 9:1b, "I will give thanks to you, LORD, with all my heart; I will tell of all your wonderful deeds." (NIV)

    1 Chronicles 16:34, "Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: If you want to learn to pray more faithfully and fervently in the midst of uncertain circumstances, you’ll want to get a copy of Max Lucado’s book, Before Amen: The Power of a Simple Prayer.

    Join Leah DiPascal on her blog today as she shares 5 Ways To Pray For Healing.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Are you or someone you love dealing with a health crisis or ongoing health problems? Although you may feel physically weak right now, ask God to strengthen and show you how to become spiritually stronger in Him today.

    Write down all the ways your personal health story is revealing God’s glory to others. As you pray in faith for healing, also thank God for the parts of your body that are working in perfect order.

    © 2015 by Leah DiPascal. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

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