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  • How to Trust God With Your Children

    Tracie Miles AUGUST 10, 2015

    How to Trust God With Your Children TRACIE MILES

    "It was by faith that Moses’ parents hid him for three months when he was born. They saw that God had given them an unusual child, and they were not afraid to disobey the king’s command." Hebrews 11:23 (NLT)

    When my first-born child Morgan went off to college, I didn’t handle it well.

    Even though I was excited for her and this new stage of life, anxiety, worries and concern over her safety and her future began to feel like a tourniquet on my heart.

    As the summer months after graduation flew by, Morgan and I spent lots of fun time together making all the preparations for college living. August finally arrived and we were all filled with nervous excitement. I managed to make it through the move-in day without shedding a tear. But when the time came for us to head home, I felt like I was leaving my baby on a doorstep in a tattered basket and walking away.

    The tears started pouring! And continued over the next week. I cried so often, I thought my tear ducts would dry up completely.

    These were not necessarily sad tears, just mama tears filled with mixed emotions, coupled with the reality that my little girl was growing up and this new season of life was here to stay.

    After a week of being teary-eyed, I received a wake-up call from my other daughter Kaitlyn. She said, "Morgan didn’t leave forever, Mom, she just went to college."

    Her comment took me by surprise, and we had a good chuckle. But it also helped me recognize that I needed to stop stressing everyone out (including myself) by being overly emotional, and start trusting God with my most precious commodity — my children.

    I realized I’d spent so much time worrying about Morgan, that I hadn’t spent enough time entrusting her into God’s care.

    This experience brought to mind a biblical mother who literally did put her child in a basket and entrusted him into God’s care. Moses’ mother Jochebed knew Pharaoh, the king of Egypt, had ordered all Hebrew baby boys be killed. Pharoah feared the Israelites would soon outnumber and overpower the Egyptians.

    Jochebed hid her newborn son Moses for three months, but then knew she could protect him no longer. So the Bible tells us, "she got a basket made of papyrus reeds and waterproofed it with tar and pitch. She put the baby in the basket and laid it among the reeds along the bank of the Nile River" (Exodus 2:3b, NLT).

    Leaving my daughter at college was hard, but imagine how Jochebed must have felt, watching her precious baby floating down the river in a basket. A million things could have gone wrong; she could have fretted over every worst-case scenario possible. Instead, she entrusted her child to God Himself.

    Although we don’t know exactly what Jochebed was feeling, I like to think she believed God had a plan and purpose for her child’s life, giving her the courage to step away from the basket. Jochebed soon learned God orchestrated Pharoah’s daughter to bathe in the river at the perfect time, rescue Moses from the basket and commit to raise him as her own. Then Pharoah’s daughter even hired Jochebed to nurse him until he was older.

    Jochebed must have believed God loved her child more than she did, especially as she saw His incredible plans fall into place.

    As moms, we want to keep our kids safe, protect them from pain, fix their problems, make their decisions and steer them in the right direction. However, there comes a time when we realize we aren’t in control anymore and have to accept that our children’s futures are in God’s hands, not ours.

    Whether your child is starting kindergarten, middle school, high school or college, this is the time of year when parents can trust God and believe He has good plans for their children’s lives.

    What comfort and peace it brings to remember God is always in control and ever present in our children’s lives, even when we can no longer be.

    Lord, help me keep my worries at bay as I send my child off into the next phase of life. Give me a confident faith to believe You are always with them. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Joshua 1:9, "This is my command — be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the LORD your God is with you wherever you go." (NLT)

    Isaiah 40:11, "He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Visit Tracie Miles’ blog for six tips on what not to do when your child goes off to college.

    For encouragement on how to make God’s peace a reality in your life when parenting seems to be a source of stress, consider purchasing Tracie’s book Stressed-Less Living: Finding God’s Peace In Your Chaotic World.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Are you trusting your abilities to protect your child(ren) more than you’re trusting God’s? How might you need to change that perspective?

    Think about your top three fears for your children. Ask God to replace those fears with trust and help you live in courageous faith that He is in control.

    © 2015 by Tracie Miles. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • Planning the Perfect Life

    Amy Carroll AUGUST 7, 2015

    Planning the Perfect Life AMY CARROLL

    "Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails." Proverbs 19:21 (NIV)

    I was the girl with the Five-Year Plan. In my heart, I carried a list of all I wanted to achieve, experience and accomplish. When I talked about the Five-Year Plan, I’d act like it was no big deal, and I’d laugh about it. Yet in reality … It. Was. No. Joke. I held it tightly.

    At the age of 20, my Five-Year Plan included finishing my education degree, teaching for a year, going to Bible college for a year, and then heading to the mission field. It seemed logical to me.

    When I was 8 years old, I decided I wanted to be a teacher. At 12, a missionary who spoke at my church planted a seed of growing passion for the nations. So I designed my schedule to achieve these plans the millisecond after I left college. After all, God had planted these dreams in my heart. It was my job to fulfill them, right?

    Sounded perfect to me!

    About two years into the Five-Year Plan, my "perfect" plan was interrupted by a tall, blue-eyed man who wasn’t part of what I had written onto my extended calendar. I told my mom he wasn’t my type before our first date.

    Then I married him.

    That might seem like an odd juxtaposition, and it was. Nine months after I declared Barry Carroll "not my type," I walked down the aisle toward him, my white dress trailing behind me. I was so choked with love and the overwhelming solemnity of the occasion that I could barely gasp out my vows.

    This year we celebrated our Silver Anniversary, and my bridegroom is the best interruption to my plans that ever happened to me. It turns out, God’s Word is true. "Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the LORD’s purpose that prevails" (Proverbs 19:21).

    Sometimes it takes an interruption of our perfect plan to start the life that’s perfect for us.

    When I was young, I thought plans were revealed, but it turns out life unfolds. Those dreams God planted in my heart as a girl? They’ve come to pass one by one over the past 25 years, and I’m living some dreams I never imagined at all.

    Are you a planner? Good for you! Plan away, but hold those plans with open hands and a heart ready to wait.

    Just this morning as I read 2 Peter 3, I found plans that all of us should hold tightly while we leave the unfolding of our circumstances to the Lord. "What kind of people ought you to be? You ought to live holy and godly lives as you look forward to the day of God and speed its coming" (2 Peter 3:11b-12a, NIV). We should all plan who we’re going to be, rather than what we’re going to do.

    Are you frustrated by a lack of plans? It’s okay. Really. God is no less in control of your life than the other planners’ lives around you. Wait. Watch for Him, and let His plan unfold. You’re probably better off than we planners who constantly struggle to let go and recalibrate as God works. You can help your planner friends relax and go with God’s flow!

    I’ve given up my Five-Year Plan, and I’m learning to wake up each day determined to sync my calendar to God’s. He’s the faithful unfolder of my days.

    Lord, I trust You to fulfill Your plans in my life, and I surrender my own plans to You. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight." (NIV)

    2 Thessalonians 3:5, "May the Lord direct your hearts into God’s love and Christ’s perseverance." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: In Amy’s new book Breaking Up with Perfect: Kiss Perfection Good-bye and Embrace the Joy God Has in Store for You, she reveals how we all can find more joy in a less-than-perfect life.

    Amy invites you to stop by her blog today, where she’s giving away a of copy Breaking Up with Perfect.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Are you a planner? List some of the things you’ve included in your Five-Year Plan. Put a check by the ones that have come to pass. When you look at the rest, can you identify places in your life that have been better than your original idea of perfection? Write those events on your list, and thank God for them.

    Are you frustrated by a lack of plans right now? Write out a prayer thanking God for holding your life in His hands. Tell Him you trust Him for every detail of your future, even though it’s unclear to you. Ask Him to help you on the days that fear and uncertainty seem overwhelming.

    © 2015 by Amy Carroll. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • What Are You Missing?

    Lysa TerKeurst AUGUST 6, 2015

    What Are You Missing? LYSA TERKEURST

    "The LORD looks down from heaven on all mankind to see if there are any who understand, any who seek God." Psalm 14:2 (NIV)

    A few summers ago, my son Mark was working at a family camp. While the mountains were breathtaking, the friends were plentiful and the food was every teenager’s dream, he missed home. Not horribly — but just enough to tug on the vulnerable places of his heart.

    I knew he needed some sweet comfort from home. So, I packaged up some things he needed and a few items I knew would make him happy and sent my gift of love.

    After a few days, I kept wondering when I’d get a text from him with smiles and "Thank you!" and "Wow! You’re the best mom ever!" messages. A girl can dream, right?

    But no text message came.

    Each day that went by, I grew more and more frustrated by his lack of acknowledgement of my gift. I started to wonder if he’d even received it. So I had Art, my non-emotional husband, call because he could simply ask, "Did you get the package from Mom?"

    Our son answered, "Oh yeah, I did get a box from Mom, but I haven’t opened it yet."


    Who receives a gift of love packaged up and sent to them and doesn’t even take the time to open it?

    In that moment, I felt the Holy Spirit prick my soul, "Lysa, sometimes you do this very same thing. Oh, if you only knew the number of experiences God Himself has packaged up and sent your way that you didn’t take time to open …

    "Or the number of times God has planted a bunch of wildflowers at the end of your driveway just to make you smile, but in the rush of where you were headed, you didn’t notice …

    "Or the number of times God has treasures in His Word waiting for you to uncover that would perfectly prepare you for something you’d be facing that day, if only you’d lingered with Him a little longer."

    Today’s key verse, Psalm 14:2, reminds us, "The LORD looks down from heaven on all mankind to see if there are any who understand, any who seek God."

    I wish this verse were worded differently. I wish this verse read: "The LORD looks down from heaven to see MANY who understand, MANY who seek God." But that’s not the reality of the verse. And sadly, sometimes in the rush of all I feel I must do, it’s not the reality of my life.

    I want it to be. But my soul is so prone to distractions.

    Seeking — really seeking — is more than just reading a few verses from the Bible in the morning and trying to be a good person that day. Seeking requires me to sacrifice the things I feel compelled to chase so I can be available to notice God’s clear direction.

    Whatever we chase, like it or not, gains our full attention.

    And I wonder sometimes why I feel a little insecure — a little unsettled — a little disappointed with things I thought would make me so happy. I guess you could say sometimes I get a little homesick.

    While I love vacationing here in this world for however many years the Lord will give me, I know where my real home is, and I know Who is waiting for me there.

    And now I know He takes time to tie up little care packages from home — a few things I need, a few things I’m supposed to pass on to others, and a few things He knows will simply bring me joy.

    Then God waits … to see … if I’ll notice — if I’ll remember … if today will be the day … that I lift up my face … pause in the busyness … and really seek Him.

    Dear Lord, forgive me for all the times I’ve rushed by Your gifts and overlooked Your blessings. Today, I want to pause and really seek You with all I’ve got. I love You, Lord. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Jeremiah 29:13, "You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Learn more about un-rushing your schedule so you can experience God with Lysa’s book, The Best Yes: Making Wise Decisions in the Midst of Endless Demands. Purchase your copy here.

    Slow down this week and join us for a free, 5-day "Unrush Me" Challenge. Each day, you’ll have biblical encouragement sent to your inbox. Sign up now!

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Take time out of your schedule today to look at the gifts from God in your life and thank Him for each one.

    © 2015 by Lysa TerKeurst. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • Giving God Your Not Enough

    T. Suzanne Eller AUGUST 5, 2015

    Giving God Your Not Enough SUZIE ELLER

    "As Jesus looked up, he saw the rich putting their gifts into the temple treasury. He also saw a poor widow put in two very small copper coins. ‘Truly I tell you,’ he said, ‘this poor widow has put in more than all the others. All these people gave their gifts out of their wealth; but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on.’" Luke 21:1-4 (NIV)

    I put my 2-year-old twins in the back of the shopping cart and my 3-year-old in the front seat. I only needed a few items and didn’t want to drag out the double stroller with the extra seat in back.

    Everything was going well until I passed a line of shiny new Big Wheels. I scooped the twins out of the cart and then turned to get Leslie. I thought it would be fun to show them to the kids.

    That’s when I heard a whoosh!

    Ryan jumped on one Big Wheel. His twin-sister, Melissa, on the other. Like rockets, they blasted off.

    While Melissa jetted to the back of the store, Ryan shot toward the front where the double doors opened into a busy parking lot. It took nearly 10 minutes to capture my runaways.

    I left the store, overwhelmed.

    As a mom of three toddlers, I often experienced feeling "not enough."

    Not enough sleep. Not enough hours in the day. Not enough of me to go around. But on that day my "not enough" went deeper. I judged myself far too harshly.

    In today’s passage, we meet another woman who has experienced "not enough." She’s clutching two farthings … barely 1/100 of a day’s wages … surrounded by men with overflowing resources, who gave large offerings. Yet Jesus told the disciples her offering was greater.


    The rich men gave out of their excess while the widow gave out of her not enough.

    Maybe you’re a mom and there are days you feel as if you give out of your not enough all day long, or you compare yourself to others.

    What does the widow’s example teach us?

    She gave all she had.

    When it’s all you’ve got, it’s significant. As moms, we bring everything to Jesus — all of it, the good parts and the hard parts. You bring your desire to make a difference. You bring your personality and talents, whether you are the mom who jumps on the bed with her kids, or the mom who makes the tastiest cupcakes ever.

    You also bring the harder parts, like your doubts.

    When we place our "not enough" like doubt or impatience or lack of knowledge in His hands, it translates to trust in Him — believing that He’ll help us fill those gaps.

    She willingly gave.

    The widow’s two farthings were of great value to her.

    Willingly offering your child means that you understand that God has a stake in this, too. He has a plan and a purpose for your child. He loves him or her. He knows your child’s DNA and the number of hairs on his head.

    But it doesn’t stop there. Just as He loves your babies, He treasures you. Don’t hide because you feel like you made a mistake. Willingly walk into His presence and give Him all of you. He’ll meet you there.

    She trusted God with her offering.

    Parenting is a continual process of putting in our two farthings. Trust God for the long-term, friend. You’re parenting every single day, but it all adds up as they become the human beings God created them to be.

    If I could go back to that young mama in the store, I’d wrap my arms around her and say, "The ‘not enough’ you give day in and day out is seen by God and by His grace and power it is more than enough."

    Father, today, I give everything I have and everything that I am to You. I joyfully bring my "not enough." In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: 2 Corinthians 12:9, "But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: If you can relate to Suzie Eller’s story, you might appreciate her book, The Mom I Want to Be: Rising Above Your Past to Give Your Kids a Great Future.

    Visit Suzie’s blog where she offers two giveaways of her book, The Mom I Want to Be.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: The enemy would like to camp out in our "not enough" and make us feel inadequate.

    Thank God for one thing you do well as a mom. Then, offer Him the one area where you feel least equipped. Praise Him for His work in enabling you to do both.

    © 2015 by Suzie Eller. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • I Want Faith Like That

    Priscilla Shirer AUGUST 4, 2015

    I Want Faith Like That PRISCILLA SHIRER

    "Faith is the confidence that what we hope for will actually happen; it gives us assurance about things we cannot see." Hebrews 11:1 (NLT)

    I couldn’t wait for the chance to have lunch with her. Not to eat or talk, but to listen.

    After watching her for a while, I knew this woman from my Bible study group was different. She radiated the power of God, seemed overwhelmed with His joy and consumed with His peace.

    Not just occasionally … always.

    It was obvious she heard God’s voice clearly. Her interaction with Him was relational and refreshing. She consistently saw evidence of His activity in the rhythms of her life.

    God’s Word was alive to her — because He was alive to her.

    Maybe you’ve known one or two of those women yourself: She prays and believes. Expects then sees. Asks and then receives. She’s not easily discouraged or paralyzed by fear and insecurity, and she has a laundry list of very practical experiences with God to prove it.

    I had to know how she got to this point in her life, so I pressed my friend for details on her walk with the Lord and what made it so vibrant, fresh and alive.

    The secret she shared with me that day over salad and sweet tea is the exact same one I want to reveal to you. It can all be summed up in one tiny, but very critical, power-filled word: FAITH.

    "Priscilla," she said. "Be a woman of faith — not just a woman who talks faith — and you’ll never regret it."

    Faith is one of the most overused, yet underutilized, expressions in Christian circles. Which is completely backward, because talking about faith is not the same as having it.

    The true meaning of faith is plain and simple: Faith is an action.

    In fact, action is the thing that makes faith, well, faith.

    By definition, faith is not talking about, thinking about or even celebrating God’s truth. It is the process of adapting your behavior, your decisions and ultimately, your whole lifestyle so it aligns with what God has asked you to do — without needing to see the evidence it will all work out in the end.

    My father and pastor, Dr. Tony Evans, puts it like this, "Faith is acting like it is so, even when it is not so, so that it might be so, simply because God said so."

    My friend told me that, as far as she could tell, what enhanced her experience with God was that she was willing and committed to translate her beliefs to active faith — acting on the promises and directives of God, not merely talking about them.

    It could be a seemingly small thing like giving a gift to a stranger or being the first to mend fences with a friend. Or something larger, like moving from one state to another — her commitment to identify and follow the Lord’s leading in her heart was the key that not only unlocked the door to spiritual vibrancy, but also kept her from falling prey to the enemy’s attacks to distract, dissuade and discourage her.

    Was it always easy? No.

    But over time, she said she learned to trust God enough to move forward at His Word. And what an amazing life of adventure with the Lord has followed!

    I left that meal with a full tummy and a full heart, wanting to have a life that mirrored hers.

    Father God, I want a vibrant, intimate relationship with You. Help me walk with You in faith, even when I can’t see what You are doing. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: James 2:26, "For as the body apart from the spirit is dead, so also faith apart from works is dead." (ESV)

    2 Corinthians 5:7, "For we live by faith, not by sight." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: If you want to know how to follow God in faith, you’ll want to pick up a copy of Priscilla Shirer’s new Bible study, The Armor of God.

    For more on trusting God, visit Priscilla’s blog.

    Enter to WIN a copy of The Armor of God by Priscilla Shirer. In celebration of this book, Priscilla’s publisher is giving away 10 copies! Enter to win by leaving a comment here, letting us know why you’d like a copy for yourself OR whom you would give the book to, if you won. {We’ll randomly select 10 winners and email notifications to each one, by Monday, August 10.}

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Pastor and theologian A.W. Tozer once said, "Any faith that must be supported by the evidence of the senses is not real faith." What areas of your life are you not living by faith?

    Ask God to help you hear His voice, trust His plan and follow His leading.

    © 2015 by Priscilla Shirer. All rights reserved.

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    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • Set Yourself Up for Success

    Katy McCown AUGUST 3, 2015

    Set Yourself Up for Success KATY MCCOWN

    "This book of instruction must not depart from your mouth; you are to recite it day and night so that you may carefully observe everything written in it. For then you will prosper and succeed in whatever you do." Joshua 1:8 (HCSB)

    I gripped the steering wheel while my heart beat a little faster than usual. Something didn’t feel normal.

    I followed behind my husband, both of us pulling moving trailers, our sights set on Florida. We knew this road well, and we’d pulled trailers down it before. But this time, something was wrong.

    I phoned Luke with my concern: "Every time we take a turn or hit a bump I feel like I lose control of the car."

    We switched cars so he could feel it for himself. One bump later, we looked for a place to pull over.

    "It’s loaded wrong," he groaned.

    In our haste to leave, we threw our things in without a plan, leaving the light items in the front and the heaviest pieces in the back. That combination made the load unstable. The only thing we could do was unload and start over.

    A local post office set the stage for what turned out to make quite a stir in the little community. A few ladies even crossed the street to check out what they thought was a garage sale. We assured everyone we would be on our way just as soon as we loaded everything again — this time in the right order.

    I’ve discovered my life can feel the same way.

    I have important assignments. Given by God. But in my haste, I set my sights on where I’m going and forget how important it is to "load" my days the right way.

    The day’s duties and demands, time with God and my family … they all get thrown into my soul without considering what goes in first. Then as I go through my day, the road feels shaky. The load of life seems to control me. My heart beats faster and fear fills my journey.

    Yet God reminded me of a time when that wasn’t my practice. No matter how much I had to do, I started each morning — before the sun rose — on my knees with my husband. We handed over our burdens to God, determined to surrender to His way and stand in His strength.

    I made time in God’s Word a priority, not an afterthought. I took God seriously when He said, "Pray constantly" (1 Thessalonians 5:17, HCSB).

    And that changed everything. No longer did the load demand my attention. No longer did the load lead me. No longer did I grip the day in fear of the next bump or turn. Instead, I settled into my God-given assignments with confidence.

    God spoke our key verse to Joshua as he took command of the nation of Israel and stared down a big job … cross a river and conquer a land full of unfriendly people and fortified cities. No small task for the new guy.

    But, after God issued His orders, He did not go straight into battle plans. In fact, God didn’t talk war strategy at all.

    Instead, God told Joshua: Stick with me. It’s as if God knew our human tendencies to focus on the plan, instead of the Planner. To look to the goal instead of the Giver of the goal.

    The key to Joshua’s victory would be his surrender to God. And the same is true for us today. Before we scroll through social media. Before we reach for our calendars. Before we pick up the concerns that tucked us into bed last night. Let us load God’s Word.

    Dear God, I know I cannot handle this day without You. Set my heart on Your presence from the moment I rise to the last blink of my eyes. Help me ignore the demands of my day until I’ve loaded Your truth into the foundations of my soul. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Psalm 119:35, "Lead me in the path of your commandments, for I delight in it." (ESV)

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    REFLECT AND RESPOND: What is the first thing on your mind when you wake up in the morning? What keeps you from devoting the first moments of your day to God?

    List two or three ways you can deflect those thoughts to a later time and guard the first minutes of your day for whispers with God.

    While you talk with God, keep a pen and paper nearby. Jot down "to-dos" that creep into your mind, then continue your conversation with Him.

    © 2015 by Katy McCown. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • When Fear Paralyzes Your Faith

    Renee Swope JULY 31, 2015

    When Fear Paralyzes Your Faith RENEE SWOPE

    "‘Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.’" Isaiah 43:1b-2 (NIV)

    I crawled into bed and slipped under a blanket of fear. My husband was out of town for work, and I was afraid to go to sleep. Fear had become a constant companion during his nights away.

    I knew I needed to trust God, but I didn’t.

    Instead, I went through the motions of what good Christians do: I prayed, read Scripture and taped Bible verses on sticky notes to my lamp and bedside. But then I also put a phone under my pillow and a neighborhood directory beside my bed.

    The next night, I took it a step further by putting toys on the stairs — to trip possible burglars. I brought my children into my room to sleep there as well, and moved the dresser in front of our bedroom door.

    Although I thought I was controlling my circumstances, fear had taken control of me. Frustrated that I still couldn’t sleep, I opened the Bible and read a familiar passage, found in today’s key verse:

    "‘Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze’" (Isaiah 43:1b-2).

    As I read each word slowly, God showed me something I’d never seen: My fears were like flames and my efforts to protect myself were like gasoline. Every attempt to ease my fears was like dousing fuel on the fire, and now it was consuming me.

    Gently, the Holy Spirit reminded me that God had not given me a spirit of fear but a spirit "of power and of love and of a sound mind" (2 Timothy 1:7b, NKJV).

    Suddenly I knew the only way to overcome my fear and walk in faith was to walk through what I feared the most. I had to put away the props in which I’d placed my faith and go to bed trusting God, realizing that even if my fears came true, He would be with me.

    I crawled out of bed and put everything away. The dresser went back in place. My kids went back to their rooms and I went to sleep without my phone under my pillow. And that night, I slept better than I had in weeks.

    Fear loses its power when we actively trust God more than what we fear.

    Let’s ask God to show us what we are afraid of. What is paralyzing our faith and keeping us from living confidently in His peace and freedom? And then let’s give God a chance to come though for us as we courageously walk through our fears, holding God’s hand and trusting His heart to lead, protect and preserve us each step of the way.

    Dear God, help me walk through my fears by facing them instead of being paralyzed by them. I want to take Your hand and trust Your heart with all that is within me. Give me courage today to take the first step. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: Psalm 34:4, "I sought the LORD, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Could you use the encouragement of a friend to help overcome your fears? In her life-changing book, A Confident Heart, Renee Swope will walk you through a powerful process of identifying and overcoming your greatest fears and insecurities so you can live with confidence and courage!

    For more encouragement and a giveaway, visit Renee’s blog.

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: What fears paralyze your faith or hinder your everyday life?

    Ask God to show you one step to take today to walk through a fear that keeps you from trusting Him completely.

    © 2015 by Renee Swope. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • Born of Desire

    Amber Haines JULY 30, 2015

    Born of Desire AMBER C. HAINES

    "Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death." James 1:15 (NIV)

    What a dreadful verse for me to write about here, I know, but when the fog and fear of grief landed on me the year after my baby was in the hospital, I broke down, and I need to say this: I became fractured.

    I desperately wanted control of my son’s health, and for that matter, I wanted control of anything in my proximity. This is how I thought I could hold myself together … how I thought I could hold the whole world together.

    It’s interesting how sin creates a role reversal between God and us, and often when we’re in the midst of it, we don’t see what we’re doing. There’s no way we would purposely go into a situation and say, "Yeah, I think I would like to bear the weight of the world here." Instead, those thoughts are more like tiny seeds inside us, and these seeds are often the hidden seeds of desire.

    I didn’t know back then how any desire not satisfied in Christ would divide me from my community and shatter me from within. One from the other (wife from husband, mother from sons) and one from within (mind from body from soul). We all fracture this way when we confuse our desires and aim for satisfaction outside of God.

    It was like backward walking for us during those days, a process of un-recovery. Seth topped off his drinks in secret. I loomed in online shopping carts as a way to tap into another world, a way to inject a sense of hope. I counted pennies and bought clothes and art and arranged an imagined life of control and order and clarity while my boys ran unanswered circles around me. I planned and spent our money as if I were buying sanity.

    Deeper into the bottle and deeper into my to-do lists and imaginary occasions to wear beautiful clothes, we engaged ourselves in an undoing, and with every undoing (the drinks, the shopping, the disappointed stomp), I entered deeper inside myself, desire so muddy I didn’t know I wasn’t whole. I didn’t know how much I refused to acknowledge my brokenness, walking around in the pieces of pride.

    I sat for hours making lists. I listed foods my son could eat. I scanned my schedule and wrote down every move I would make. I wanted control of myself, to make myself a life. The desire to survive created in me a striving I had never known. I was striving so hard that I had to lean into the kitchen counter to hold up my lungs. I was working to breathe.

    Every step of striving was a wall, a barrier against love and a refusal to trust my Heavenly Father. Every effort toward control made me more numb, and if you can’t feel, you aren’t alive anymore. Control was killing me. Just as our key verse in James 1:15 points out: sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.

    All along, maybe I just wanted a little bit of my own kingdom, a place where I knew I would be okay, but I wasn’t made to be queen. I was made a beloved and free daughter. I wasn’t made to be divided by desire, bearing the fruit of rage, anxiety, isolation and exhaustion.

    I was made for an abundant life whose desires bear the unhindered and eternal fruit of righteousness.

    Heavenly Father, You are the giver of every good and perfect gift. You’ve given Your Word, Your Spirit and our Savior. You give me desires that lead to life. Help me recognize my desires and give me wisdom to know what will be born from them. Bear in me the fruit of Your Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, gentleness, faithfulness and self-control. Lord, this is my freedom. Please set me free. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: James 1:18, 21, "He chose to give us birth through the word of truth, that we might be a kind of firstfruits of all he created … Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Amber Haines’ new book, Wild in the Hollow: On Chasing Desire and Finding the Broken Way Home, brings hope for everyone who has longed to feel free, authentic and whole.

    Do you wrestle with desire? Head to Amber Haines’ blog today for more encouragement.

    Enter to WIN a copy of Wild in the Hollow by Amber Haines. In celebration of this book, Amber’s publisher is giving away 10 copies! Enter to win by leaving a comment here, letting us know why you’d like a copy for yourself OR whom you would give the book to, if you won. {We’ll randomly select 10 winners and email notifications to each one, by Wednesday, August 5.}

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Sometimes we want a very long list of things, but even those surface-level things can tell you something about what you really need from God.

    What is it right now that you desire? How might that desire be fulfilled in Christ?

    © 2015 by Amber C. Haines. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries thanks Revell Publishers for their sponsorship of today’s devotion.

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    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • Faith Feeds on the Word of God

    Wendy Blight JULY 29, 2015

    Faith Feeds on the Word of God WENDY BLIGHT

    {Editor’s Note: This week, we introduce a new, exciting and we believe faith-transforming initiative. We call it First 5. It’s our desire for women across the globe to join us in giving the first moments of our day to God. In today’s devotion, we share a taste of what will greet you as you open the mobile app each morning. So our format will be a little different than what you are used to seeing. Enjoy!}

    "Consequently, faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word about Christ." Romans 10:17 (NIV)

    Faith feeds on the Word of God.

    Our Creator made it so that our faith works much the same way our bodies work. He designed us to require daily nourishment. So, a few cups of coffee in the morning, a protein bar at lunch and another before we go to bed is not enough to sustain us physically. We need real food — fruits and vegetables, proteins and carbohydrates — to supply the fuel we need to carry us throughout each day.

    Similarly, a diet lacking a steady intake of God’s Word cannot sustain us spiritually. Our faith weakens.

    How do we know our faith needs God’s Word to grow? The Bible gives us great clues.

    Our verse today from Romans 10:17 says, "… Faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word about Christ." In other words, our faith flourishes when we spend time in God’s Word. It only makes sense that if faith comes from the Word of God, it dissipates in its absence.

    Faith feeds on the Word of God.

    Proverbs 22:18,19b says, "For it is good to keep these sayings in your heart and always ready on your lips … so you will trust in the LORD" (NLT). God gives us His Word so we can know His character and be assured that He is trustworthy.

    Faith feeds on the Word of God.

    As the prophet Jeremiah tells us in Jeremiah 17:7-8, "But blessed are those who trust in the LORD and have made the LORD their hope and confidence. They are like trees planted along a riverbank, with roots that reach deep into the water. Such trees are not bothered by the heat or worried by long months of drought. Their leaves stay green, and never stop producing fruit" (NLT).

    Similarly, when we meditate on the Word of God day and night, we are like strong, unbendable trees. Trees that bear bountiful fruit. Trees that are continually nourished, so they never die.

    Faith feeds on the Word of God.

    Faith has no life without the Word. It’s what faith trusts. And without a continual filling of God’s wisdom and truth, faith has no fan to flame it.

    You’re invited to join our Proverbs 31 Ministries family as we begin a daily intake of God’s Word together. Not only first thing in the morning. But meet back with us throughout the day for My Moments, Prayer Moments, More Moments and Major Moments.

    I can only imagine the joy that will fill God’s heart as He looks down each morning and sees us not only giving Him the first moments of our day, but also listening for His whispers and watching for His hand at work each and every day.

    Faith feeds on the Word of God.

    Prayer Moment: Heavenly Father, I trust Your Word. I want my faith to grow, so I commit today to give the first 5 minutes of my morning to You. I want a fresh filling of You each day. I want a deeper faith. A trusting faith. I can’t wait to meet with You! In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    My Moment: What will it look like for you to give your first 5 minutes to God each day?

    Wendy’s Response: I will have to sacrifice a few more moments of precious sleep so I can meet with Jesus before I jump into the morning, making lunches and getting my family ready for the day.

    More Moment: Read Proverbs 2:1-5. What does God ask us to do? What does God promise if we walk in obedience to His command?

    Read Isaiah 55:11. When God’s Word goes out, what does God promise?

    Major Moment: God sent His Word to feed and nourish us.

    I’m praying for you today! For you to say "yes" to giving God the first moments of your day. To feed your soul. To gird up your faith. To get to know and trust the very One who created you and loved you so much He gave His One and only Son for you.

    RELATED RESOURCES: The First 5 app is now available! Download it for free and join us as we study the book of John.

    Take your daily app teachings even deeper with the book of John Experience Guide. The Experience Guide is beautifully designed to complement each day’s teaching and grow your faith, as you reflect and respond on what you’re learning. Purchase yours today and receive a free, downloadable Experience Guide to use until yours arrives!

    © 2015 by Wendy Blight. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

  • Our Wedding Night Changed Our Marriage

    Kim Kimberling JULY 28, 2015

    Our Wedding Night Changed Our Marriage KIM KIMBERLING, PH.D.

    "What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?" Romans 8:31 (NIV)

    When I tell people that my wife Nancy and I have been married 45 years, I almost always hear "Wow!" and "That’s great." I appreciate those comments, but where we are today has been a journey. We didn’t have an awesome marriage for a very long time.

    In fact, starting out as barely 20-year-olds, we really had no idea what marriage was all about. Our fights almost did our marriage in before it began. After six years of marriage, the future was dark, we had a new baby and we needed a miracle.

    Of all the things we did wrong, there is one thing we did right. I wish I could say I brought it to the marriage, but I didn’t. Nancy did.

    Let me paint a picture for you.

    On our wedding night after we left the reception and finally made it to our hotel room, Nancy made a request of me that God has used in our marriage since that day.

    As we got ready for bed, Nancy went into the bathroom to change. I changed in about 30 seconds and waited for her sitting on the side of the bed. An eternity later, she emerged from the bathroom looking like an angel. She walked over to me, took my hand, sat beside me on the bed, looked into my eyes and said, "We need to pray."

    In case you were wondering, that was the last thing I thought my new bride would say to me in that moment. But the real surprise was that I looked her back in the eyes and said, "OK."

    We knelt by the bed in our hotel room, held hands and prayed a prayer we both knew and were comfortable praying together: The Lord’s Prayer.

    Since that first night many years ago, we have prayed together almost every day. Through all the ups and downs of life and marriage, praying together daily is the glue God has used over and over to keep us close to Him.

    During the darkest times in our marriage, as we continued to pray together, we saw God show up over and over to keep us together.

    First, God used an older lady in our church to minister to Nancy. As Nancy shared our story, this wise woman lovingly encouraged Nancy to stay in the marriage and that God would make something beautiful out of it.

    Second, as we continued to talk about our marriage and our struggles, it became obvious that neither one of us really wanted a divorce.

    Finally, we made a vow never to bring up divorce again and to let God build our marriage His way.

    As we purposely put God first each day, our marriage began to change. It was not overnight; in fact, it was a process that continues to this day. But God taught us how to fight for our marriage instead of fighting each other. It was marriage-changing.

    We learned to stand side by side with God and take on anything and everything that the world threw at us. We learned firsthand that if God is for us no one can ever stand against us (Romans 8:31b). It is a truth that I pray every married couple can embrace because it is a truth that will close the gap between where your marriage is and where God wants it to be.

    Father, You truly are the Great Healer. I pray that I may see Your plan for my marriage. Make the changes You want to make in me. In us. I pray to be so connected to You and my spouse that we may stand together against all that would come against our marriage. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

    TRUTH FOR TODAY: John 17:15, "My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one." (NIV)

    RELATED RESOURCES: Dr. Kim Kimberling’s new book, 7 Secrets to an Awesome Marriage: Strengthen Your Most Intimate Relationship, will help you have the marriage God designed for you.

    For lots of great free resources for your marriage, click here.

    Enter to WIN a copy of 7 Secrets to an Awesome Marriage by Dr. Kim Kimberling. In celebration of this book, Dr. Kim’s publisher is giving away 10 copies! Enter to win by leaving a comment here, letting us know why you’d like a copy for yourself OR whom you would give the book to, if you won. {We’ll randomly select 10 winners and email notifications to each one, by Monday, August 3.}

    REFLECT AND RESPOND: Today, where is God in your marriage?

    If God is not the center of your marriage, what needs to be your next step? It may be praying together on a regular basis, or talking to a trusted mentor. If you and your spouse need further help, it may be time to talk to your pastor or a Christian counselor.

    Whatever your next step is, do it today! It will make a difference in your marriage tomorrow.

    © 2015 by Kim Kimberling, Ph.D. All rights reserved.

    Proverbs 31 Ministries thanks Zondervan for their sponsorship of today’s devotion.

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    Proverbs 31 Ministries 630 Team Rd., Suite 100 Matthews, NC 28105 www.Proverbs31.org

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