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Midlife Crisis

“May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer—may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love”. Proverbs 5:18-19


A midlife crisis means you are most likely discontent. Your may be discontent with your wife, your work, and your car. However, the Bible is very clear about being content with what or who God has blessed you with, especially your spouse. His desire is for you to want what you have, and not obsess over what you don’t have. Remember the bride of your youth, and celebrate her coming out party.
Perhaps you married her because she was cute, cuddly, cared about you, and she loved Christ. Those are compelling characteristics that hopefully have grown over the years. Be joyful in Jesus, and grateful to God that He has given you a woman who walks with Him, and wants to be with you. Rejoice in the wife of your youth, as she keeps you young and yearning for Yahweh.

“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances.” Philippians 4:11
Moreover, be captivated by the love of your wife. Her capacity and willingness to love you will grow, as you consistently and unconditionally love her. What wife will not embrace her husband, who serves her like His Savior Jesus serves? Love and respect creates love and respect, as it is a Christ-like cycle. Be captivated by the love of your wife, knowing she was given to you by God. You chose her, so be pleased with your choice; in His providence He pronounced you “husband and wife”.

Lastly, a wife captivates her husband with her kind character, and attractive looks. You wooed the husband of your youth by your sweet spirit, your delightful smell, and your inviting beauty. Be very intentional to make your love interesting to your man who may easily get bored in the bedroom. Let the distractions of life, and the activities of raising children rank second to your captivating love for each other. The “grass is greener” is the will of God, which means remaining faithful to one another.
“And as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, So your God will rejoice over you.” Isaiah 62:5b

Prayer: How can I love my wife in a way that brings alive her captivating love?

Related Readings: Song of Songs 4:5; Ecclesiastes 9:9; I Corinthians 7:2; Ephesians 5:28

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2 thoughts on “Midlife Crisis”

  • Leteti

    Why doesn't the bible have any information for women who r going through a crisis?

    • Family Christian

      Hmmmm - good question. When reading the Bible, please note the following:
      Mary was likely going through a crisis as an unwed mother in a male dominated culture.
      Ruth was likely going through a crisis as a widow with no means of support for her or her mother-in-law.
      Esther was definitely in crisis mode when she was faced with the choice of living her comfortable life or saving her people.
      I’m guessing putting a baby in the Nile to possibly save his life was somewhat of a crisis for Moses’ mother.
      The woman who touched Jesus’ cloak to be healed was likely going through a crisis.
      Each of these ladies all faced their crisis’ and it seems that faith was what carried them through.

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